Mine were suppose to openly adopted. I haven’t seen my two girls in two years. DCF (DSS) says, that my oldest, who is 14 now doesn’t want anything to do with me. My youngest, is affected by this and they are saying she is getting use to her new pre-adoptive home.

My mother gets visits frequently with the oldest (unsupervised), and she has seen the youngest last month. But, the pre-adoptive mother thinks she is going to kidnap her. Just yet another rumor spread by DCF. So DCF decided when she does see the youngest that they need to be supervised. Luckily, my oldest’s foster mother does the supervising. Visits have become less frequent since last summer.

The psychologist testified in court that this would be very important for their futures for my children to see the grandparents on a regular basis, since they were so much in their lives. The other grandmother just was approved for two supervised visits a year with the youngest, a couple of weeks ago. She has it in writing, unlike my mother, so hopefully they go with the flow.

I will need to go to court yet again for my visits. I have doubts that I will ever see them again. I agree that DCF really has pulled a fast one on us, since mine is in writing that I get two visits a year. It hurts thinking about it.

Just think about it… 14 x 6,000 per a month = $84,000.00 a month, not to mention all the free publicity. Wow! What a score that would be!

Don’t be too sure that an “Open” adoption is possible. My brother and wife were forced into giving their daughter up for adoption and supposedly “Open”. Well, after hearing nothing and waiting till she turned 18 so we thought and were told that we had to wait till she turned 21. She turned 21 and we received the most hurful, hatefilled and nasty note anybody could have ever received. We did not know her and she did not know us. However, it is assumed she went to a rich family. She never lived with her biological parents or biological relatives so she had nothing to complain about. Who taught her to hate and be so arrogant is beyond belief!

http://www.emediawire.com/releases/Dr/Phil/prweb2264514.htm

Personally, I believe Gloria Allred was the power behind the scenes soliciting donations for Angels in Waiting.

However, Nadya says that Kaiser Permanente will now train Nadya’s own personal nannies on newborn care.

I personally think Ms. Suleyman is gaming the system, however, trust issues are always paramount when dealing with CPS.

After all “the business of children is THEIR BUSINESS..”

Todd… I’m amazed by the number of people who scorn Nadya for the creativity and strength to do her own thing. I wouldn’t choose to have children without a father but it is what she wanted and even with six, she wanted more. Possibly this is all she wants to do with her life. I am not sent to earth to judge others and I hope all you others learn to abstain from judging others too.