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Child Protective Services laws and agencies are abusive to families and children. This site provides support and information to parents falsely accused of child abuse by Child Protective Services.
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Child Protective Services, CPS, has devastated and destroyed hundreds of thousands of families in America during the last thirty years leaving a trail of broken hearts, broken dreams, and shattered childhoods.
Rather than helping families, government agents have used unconstitutional laws in Juvenile Court to rip children away from their loving parents, break asunder God-given, natural, parent-child bonds, and adopt the children of the grieving out to others who profit financially with large monthly adoption subsidy payments.
Child Protective Services must be stopped! The law that started this, CAPTA, must be repealed. We must work tirelessly to inform the public of this very dangerous travesty of justice. We must keep faith knowing that if there is a God, there is an answer and a way to end this heartache.
Child Protective Services Agents - please come to your senses! Family destruction on false or trivial grounds is wrong, reprehensible, and inhumane.
Fosterers - be aware that for the money you get you are holding much-loved children away from their grieving families while the parents are forced to perform a service plan that is anything but a service to them. I call this hostage holding for the government. This is not kindness - to help misguided government agents destroy family relationships and break loving bonds.
CPS workers and fosterers - I ask that you now let the children of the innocent return to their homes where they are truly valued, adored, and loved by the parents God gave them.
Family rights are God-given rights. And they should not be ignored or postponed. Every moment these loving parents and children spend separated from one another is a torment beyond what anyone should ever have to bear.
It is unworthy of human dignity to allow this terrorism and torture of families to go on without saying something, speaking out, and trying to make a change.
Site mission: To provide information and support for families attacked by Child Protective Services and child welfare agents, especially those families facing false or trivial accusations of child abuse or neglect; and for researchers working to protect natural family rights.
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Fighting Child Protective Services False Accusations
December 8, 2008
You all have notebooks, right?
Is your notebook up to date?
A notebook, preferably spiral bound or a legal tablet, is a handy place to keep a running record of everything that happens in your CPS case. The caseworkers are keeping notes on you in the case narratives section of the case file. You should be keeping notes on the caseworkers. You should have a record of every contact that occurs during the course of your CPS case.
What can you put in your case notebook?
How about:
⇒ facts on the case (what really happened)
⇒ notes on every phone call
⇒ notes on every meeting
⇒ notes on every visitation
⇒ contacts with expert witnesses (you NEED them!)
⇒ notes about the court hearings
⇒ notes on anything out of the ordinary that happens
⇒ counseling appointment notes
⇒ notes about the psychological evaluation
⇒ a record of all drug tests and results
⇒ reminders about the date of the next hearing
⇒ visitation notes
⇒ foster parent names and contact information if you have it
⇒ notes on all contacts or attempted contacts with your lawyer
⇒ notes on your daily activities
About this last item – it is helpful to have a running record of where you were and what you were doing at all times in case something happens such as what happened to me during my last CPS court appearance, which was way back in 1990. More than eighteen years ago! I was in court for the six-month hearing and was informed when I got there that my child’s paternal grandmother had accused me of being with her son, which in my case was a bad thing because the case was based on him battering me. I was there to tell the court he was no longer in my life and that my child would be safe with me.
Apparently she claimed that her two youngest children had seen me riding with him on a moped a few days earlier. This was totally untrue but she had the accusers write statements for the court saying they’d seen me with him. The court postponed the hearing for another day and that gave me the opportunity to write a declaration (affidavit) explaining where I’d been at the time the younger sibilings said they’d seen me with their older brother. I also got a supporting declaration from the person I’d actually been with. Fortunately I knew exactly where I’d been at the time, and the court was convinced I was telling the truth.
This is just one example of how an ongoing, frequently updated case notebook could save your family.
This posting is here to remind everyone to keep a case notebook and update it often. If you have any other suggestions about the kinds of things that should or shouldn’t be kept in a case notebook, please add your ideas in the comments section.
On our message board: A list of things to include in your case history
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Don’t forget copies of documentation letters and reports to the court.
Comment by Sarah T — December 9, 2008 @ 4:53 am
Excellent post. As a retired lawman, many times our notebooks were critical to our court credibility. Some other suggestions regarding this from experience. I represented myself through a 4 yr custody battle & won custody of my daughter, now 24.
1. Every time an entry is made, be sure to include small details: date, time, place, others there. Do it each entry faithfully.
2. Carry a small notebook/pencil (no ink to run out) on your person for notes to add to your journal later.
3. If you use a small recorder, transcribe the recorded details/conversation into the journal, with a note included that you wrote down all you remembered of the conversations as soon as you could. That way no charge of recording without permission.
4. In court, testify from COPIES of the notebook, leaving the original in a locked safe place. If a judge orders you to surrender your journal/notes, you only lose the copies. Same with any photos or other evidence to be used.
5. Be VERY diligent in keeping notes on case workers. At my daughter’s first hearing, I overheard the CPS worker who had testified she wrote the detention report, speak to one of the attorneys in the case. She said she did not know who had written the report, and right then in court was the first time she had even read it. By saying this, she admitted to perjury in court.
I later made use of this fact during mediation with the 4 lawyers, CPS supervisor & a worker to get the kids placed with us temporarily (Gram & Gramp).
6. As I have taught in my college classes, most people put themselves in jail with their mouths by talking too much. Same is true here. CPS is not your friend, so be sure to note every trick they use to get you to say what THEY want you to say. It is all about job security & money for them; the better and more cases they have open, the more $$ they have coming in & assuring a paycheck for them.
Lastly, your notes in the journal can be essential in the case of a civil lawsuit and/or should you be asked to testify in a Grand Jury investigation.
Grand Juries have tremendous power & authority to delve into any aspect of local government operations. Many years ago, a Grand Jury report caused a complete reorganization of the CPS agency in San Diego Co. It all started when a father was wrongly accused of raping his 11 yr old daugher even though the daughter said it wasn’t him. CPS was trying to cover up the police unwillingness to find the real rapist.
Great site. Let’s all work to get more folks involved here.
Comment by Al Ferguson — December 9, 2008 @ 1:03 pm
Are computer documents ok to use? I’ve got a bag full of every court doc, letter, police report, etc, but I’ve also kept files & updates on my pc.
Comment by Susan — December 10, 2008 @ 6:01 am
Dear Parents:
I frequently correspond with CPS in Washington state through E-mails!!! We all do it to friends and family members right? The E-mails can be used againt CPS for it is considered a legal document and they cannot deny the things they tell you and then say something different in court. Do you catch my drift? I cut and paste my and save them for a court hearing. I continually request documents and keep detailed files, but the suggestions I just read were even more detailed than mine. Good Idea!!
Keep fighting!
Debra Braxton
Comment by Debra Braxton — December 11, 2008 @ 1:43 am
To Susan:
Electronic documents are one of the listed requested documents by attornies. I have used everything in my possession and give copies to my attorneys. Scan your precious documents and keep the flash drive in a safe place. I hope this helps.
Debra Braxton
Comment by Debra Braxton — December 11, 2008 @ 1:47 am
Try to record all contact too. I attended a so called best care plan meeting and informed them there I was. Then when I was recording in access they tried to stop me on the grounds they did not give me consent. At this time she had actually abused my son, and I recorded it. I informed her I had a recording of the meeting where I informed Wendy and Wendy said O.K. They have tried many times to prevent em, and to prevent me taking pictures of injuries, abuse, hidden monitoring devices of theirs etc, to no avail.
Comment by Bonnie Arnold — December 17, 2008 @ 2:45 pm
I have a question for anyone who can answer this…….A Lawyer for DHS/CPS sent my sister’s and my mother and my brother, a court order piece of paper (delivered by a sheriff) It stated on the paper that…..the Sister’s the mother and my brother who had not gotten it yet could NOT filing anything any more in the courts unless they use a lawyer to file the paper work and the lawyer had to be a licensed lawyer in the same state? The reason I asked is because my brother has been doing all his filing him self and my sister and mom have been typing it up and getting it all certified and the courts have been accepting all the paper work. It has gotten them pretty far to say the least. But can a DHS/CPS lawyer file such a thing saying you HAVE to get a lawyer if they are doing it right? Just wondering?
Comment by C NN — January 5, 2009 @ 9:38 am
This is news to me!!!!
In this country, one has the right to represent oneself.
Exactly what is the Order? What does it say exactly?
Comment by MaggieC — January 5, 2009 @ 7:27 pm
Well that is what I thought but here is how it was worded……………
Now on this day of December 29, 2008, this court finds that neither BLANK BLANK, nor any representative on his behalf, may submit any document or materials for filing in the BLANK County Circuit Court’s records to the Circuit Clerk or Probate Clerk, unless such documents have been properly signed by an attorney licensed in the State of Arkansas, or such filing is authorized by a Circuit Court Judge of this judicial district.
IT IS FURTHER ORDERED that should the said, Blank Blank, or any representative on his behalf, attempt to violate this Order, the Circuit Clerk or Probate Clerk is to immediately notify a Circuit Judge of this Court.
IT IS FURTHER ORDERED that the Sheriff of Blank County, Arkansas, shall serve this Order upon the following:
Then it named all 4 people….my two sisters, my mom and my brother (who has been doing all the filing)
Have you ever heard of such an order???????
Comment by C NN — January 6, 2009 @ 5:49 am
It is also very important to keep documentation of each and every visit that you have with your children. I know personally that if the county, the case aides who are supervising your visits and the case worker do not like you then they will not necessarily always document the truth. I started keeping my own version of the visits and then at the end of the visit I would ask the person supervising the visit, “How did the visit go?” She would look at me like I was stupid and would tell me that the visit was great. Then I would respond, “I just wanted to make sure there are no discrepencies…
Never trust any of them, no matter how nice they may act to you. I have put my head in their trap more times than not. Never let your guard down. Even when you get your kids back, don’t ever feel you are done with them. They will always watch you, unfortunately. I am paranoid about them coming back even though I never hurt my kids. I lost them because I was a victim of domestic violence. But they “got a high” off of removing my children, according to a former case worker who was in the court room when the order was given to “remove” them. The word REMOVE sounds so sterile and clean but it’s not always in the best interest of the children.
Peace and best of luck to all.
Comment by Mother of CPS Victims — April 17, 2009 @ 1:29 am
Good point about documenting visitations! There’s a visitation report form in the legal document library here on FightCPS – that can be used to document and to send to the caseworker for confirmation of facts.
Comment by LindaJoMartin — April 17, 2009 @ 1:23 pm
i am so looking for real help?i have 3 boys in Calavaris Couny CA.ages151/2,141/2and 12.i have been trying to get the boys back after loosing them a second time as i violated O.P. against their DAD..and worse i selfmedicated w/drug usage..when i was told the boys were going to be removed the following day?big mistake i know..but this all started when i was arrested driving on a suspended..2 counts childendangerment..and we were homeless?i was scared out of my mind..49yrs old 1st time in jail..unsure what would happen ..i signed my kids into “fostercare”at which time they proceeded to build a case of gen.neglect…in aug2008…my oldest son is autistic..he has been injured in care and on both occations ..not informed by cps…it goes on and on…I AM FIGHTING>>>but i do not know who to go to for help..the P.D. basically has no time to fight my case and always convinces me to SUBMIT…ive asked for INTERSTATE COMPACT..back to owr home in ILLINOIS…cps says it can not be done this way??im tired of fighting alone i wish to be back w/FAMILY and FRIENDS..that cps says in court papers …i do not have…and like 3/4 of the case against me falsely presented to the to retain jurisdiction….ive thought to speak to the news…and thought to get a lawyer…but what i really pray for is a way to be heard with out being looked at as a crazy person?but fact is too i do feel alittle crazy…they took my boys…on incomplete and undetermind [in their words]and the rest is usually…inconclusive???its just a mess…i miss my boys…i just awnt to go back home to my 3 older kids and grandkids???any ideas??
Comment by denisebradigan — July 13, 2009 @ 8:33 pm
Denise, it sounds like they already have a lot of evidence against you and that you’ve been through a lot of traumatic situations. I suggest you do everything on your court orders to the letter. Keep documentation on everything you’re doing to comply with the court ordered services. Get as much as you can in writing so you can provide documentation of your efforts in court. Read this site and work with your attorney to prepare legal documentation to try to prove to the judge that you’re making efforts to get your children back. Have a home for them to come back to. Good luck. For more feedback on your case, try registering at our message board.
Comment by LindaJoMartin — July 13, 2009 @ 10:07 pm
my daughter got taken from me from birth, i made a mistake a took perscription pain meds while i was pregnant. i have done everything cps has asked of me plus more. i even moved into my own apt. so she would have a good place to come home to. the problem is the foster parents want to adopt the baby if she she was freed to adopt. i was so close until i got an unsupervised visit and the next day all of a sudden she had mysterious marks on her. why would i come all this way and do all the ask to do something that stupid. its funny now because in less then a month i go for a meeting for the trial discharge. ifeel like the foster mom is searching for something to just try and keep my baby. THIS IS NOT RIGHT
Comment by Eileen Otis — November 26, 2009 @ 11:08 am
I WAS ATTACKED BY MY SON’S PHYSICIAN AND THEN I WENT TO ER AND MADE A POLICE REPORT ON HER. LATER THAT DAY SHE CALLED DCFS AND SAID I BEAT MY KIDS FROM HEAD TO TOE. WHAT DO I DO ?
Comment by SHANA — December 23, 2009 @ 2:31 pm
DO I NEED TO FILE A CIVIL LAWSUIT OR A BATTERY LAWYER? MY SON WAS A WITNESS TO THIS ASSAULT. HELP!
Comment by SHANA — December 23, 2009 @ 2:33 pm
Shana, I can’t advise you on what to do. You need a lawyer. With a physician making that kind of accusation you’re up against a difficult situation. Please get the best legal help you can now, before this goes any further.
Comment by LindaJoMartin — December 30, 2009 @ 11:52 am
I am having to sign parental rights away. My son needs resourses that the state wont give him if he stays with me. I miss his so much, good by Brandon I love you.
Comment by Ken — April 10, 2010 @ 2:18 pm
I have a beautiful 2 year old little girl who CPS is trying to take away from me cause I was in the hospital cause my anti deppressant I was taking was making me feel worse and I had taken to many. This isnt like me. Now im gonna lose my baby girl and I dont know what to do. I wont be able to make it without her.
Comment by Melissa — April 20, 2010 @ 6:33 am
Melissa, please join us on the message board for feedback on your case. Stay strong and know that you’re not alone… we’re here to help you through this!
Comment by Linda Martin — April 20, 2010 @ 11:29 am
nine years ago my children and i lived in a small town, we had a problem with cps. my daughter now 21s having an issue with cps and due to the past issue in2001 cps will not allow me to have my grandchild??? what is wrong with this picture??? i was proven innocent of all accusations then and now this has destroyed my family!!! is the past ever forgiven when it was their mistake to begin with????
Comment by devastated meme — May 2, 2010 @ 9:51 am
Devastated Meme, you can apply for an administrative hearing to have the state review this decision, and get hold of your state legislators! Tell them about how the laws are being misused. Often when relatives try to get placement the caseworkers move the child from foster care to another relative’s home, but sometimes the original relative gets the child. Worth a try. Anything is better than leaving the child in a foster home.
Comment by Linda Martin — May 2, 2010 @ 10:02 am
I am being eaten alive by cps informants who are falsely accusing me of being a drunk and drug user. I think my husband is sending money to social services but my son and I don’t get a dime. I need to get on the record to refute these liars. What can I do? We have been so traumatized by what these people have done to us.
Comment by Jeanette — May 2, 2010 @ 1:15 pm
I think the suggestion to keep a detailed notebook of your information, phone calls, etc. is a FANTASTIC suggestion. The county I work for even provides a 1.5 hour class about how this can be helpful to you and your case, and gives a binder to help you organize your documents. Just the effort involved would show me the parent is serious about getting their child back or closing their case, and shows a lot of great skills for parenting, such as knowing where they can go when they do need help for medical, dental, community or mental health services, etc. It would help me see that a parent really doesn’t need us around, that even if an emergency came up, they’d know where to go to get help for themselves or their child(ren). And by using that information, it could help keep a potential future report from coming in. Advocating for yourself and your children is important!
Comment by CPS Worker — May 7, 2010 @ 10:10 pm
Hello, my daughter is very ill. The school nurse we believe reported that she may not be getting the proper medical care. We have been to 6 different hospitals and still they cannot find the problem. They are alleging that we are making this up and are trying to prove negligence. We have all of the documentation to support her illness and our attempted treatment of her. They have opened the case and are requiring a psyciatric family evaluation for the next 90 days. Who knows when this will end. Any ideas on how to stop them. They are interviewing my other children as well.
Comment by Rodolfo — May 18, 2010 @ 2:12 pm
a record on what people (and there names) that come to see your childern in foster care and in your home .
Comment by michael — May 22, 2010 @ 6:34 pm
my twin girls was taken from me when me and my girlfriend was at a drug test for work first . it all started when we had a group called CDSA come to the home and check there development . they were suppose to set them up with a development coordinater and a nutritionist . but insted they called cps and told them that our room was messy and there was weapons in the room (witch was a pocket knife) . also said the room was moldy witch its not . they claimed there was an ammo box in the room , witch there is it holds up my bed cause the bar under the bed is broken . the box is empty and has’nt had anything in it sence i last uesed 8 years ago . they tried to say we put our dog on the pourch to keep them out , but our dog was sick and we had put him there to keep an eye on him to see if he got better . my girls are 3 months old and now staying with my aunt & uncle . but CPS keeps comeing up with new stuff every day .
Comment by michael — May 22, 2010 @ 7:08 pm
im soo sick cps took my 3year old and my 7 year old my last court date is aug 28 im doing every thing thay told me i have passed hair folical and all other drug test i want to no if i have done every thing thay have asked and more can thay take away my rihgts and adopt them out i will die with out them
Comment by christy — June 13, 2010 @ 8:35 pm
This is my first time dealing with CPS and boys its a headache. what makes this so sad its not with my own children its with my granddaughter.
Comment by Shunta — July 6, 2010 @ 11:34 am
For anyone interested, I have used my and my son’s experience of 10 years and counting; to have developed an intense documentation system for families of children who are involved in CPS. Weather you are boyfriend and girlfriend, husband and wife, married or single, with a child or children involved with CPS -
this system WILL HELP YOU!!!
I am by no way shape or form selling anything; I am just sharing with you what I have come across as being exceptionally helpful to me numerous times over and has made CPS very angry with me more times than I can recall, and I continue to do so :-), In other instances it has also proved to help me save my very small family of two (my son and I).
Comment by Jennifer — July 7, 2010 @ 7:38 pm
After just posting that last message, I can see that there is no way for anyone to get ahold of me. So I will add my blog site here shortly……
Comment by Jennifer — July 7, 2010 @ 7:42 pm
Okay. Here is a blog that is a VERY POWERFUL resource. I noticed that it is under a “revamp” at the moment, however it will be back up by midnight tomorrow evening (11:59pm on 7/8/2010). If you know of anyone who has just become or is currently involved in CPS, or perhaps it’s yourself…..do them and yourself a very big favor…..VISIT THIS SITE AND BOOKMARK IT!!!!!
You will come back to it over and over again! Filled With VERY POWERFUL POINTERS & RESOURCES. Read, Communicate, Share and Comment with other familes that are at the mercy of Child Protective Services.
You will be be very happy that you did. :-) :-)
Comment by Jennifer — July 7, 2010 @ 8:27 pm
This site is far better than what I could have offered.
Comment by Jennifer — July 7, 2010 @ 8:44 pm
Hello. Any advice anyone could give me would be highly appreciated. to make long story short, i went to my pastor asking for help with depression id been dealing with. I went to another state for help with depression to a christian retreat center and arranged for my children to be cared for by childrens pastor of my church. However after being in the retreat center for 4 mths the kids were put into states custody because they lost their medical ins. since we were no longer in same home, and now…im jumpin through hoops. they are placed with my ex sis in laws. i get ONE 1 hr visit a week. supervised. I did absolutely nothing wrong. I need some advice please
Comment by Laura — July 19, 2010 @ 7:26 pm
Kimberly, I’ve seen courts terminate parental rights for refusal to take meds. I think it is wrong when the side effects are worse than the original symptoms… but they will definitely use it against you in court if you tell them you’re not using the meds.
Comment by Linda Martin — August 11, 2010 @ 9:11 pm
Please send sites that help parents fight Childrens Aid in Canada
Comment by MM — August 24, 2010 @ 9:30 pm
MM, there was a posting of a new group in Alberta on our message board today: http://www.defendingthecanadianfamily.webs.com/ … also there is a long-established site in Ontario, http://www.fixcas.com/ … hope this helps!
Comment by Linda Martin — August 25, 2010 @ 12:51 am
hey the cps said im trying to make my kids sick fore attetion i live in houston trying to figure out to sue because it lies n they are not allowd to say they are sick are they wont see me my number is 8328758515 if u can help call me i have ;awyer but he wont sue them for fales allegations towards me
Comment by brooke — August 29, 2010 @ 10:33 pm
Brooke, the lawyer you use for juvenile court appearances usually isn’t the kind of lawyer who knows how to sue in federal court. You’ll need a specialist to help you after your case is closed. You also need expert witnesses lined up to testify for you – for example, the doctors who agreed that your child was sick.
Comment by Linda Martin — August 30, 2010 @ 7:32 am
When is it our right to know who called/started the alleged report that CPS is working off of? I know my ex has falsified these allegations and it’s unjust and unfair to say the least just to get back at me for some reason? Why aren’t we allowed to see the full report and WHO started it?
Thanks!
Comment by Grace — August 30, 2010 @ 3:09 pm
Grace, the “mandated reporter” laws in each state usually have a clause to state that anyone who reports child abuse or neglect will have their identity protected. This is so they can get more people to call in because there’s a hidden agenda in the USA to destroy families. These laws originate with the corrupt federal level of government.
By reading your state’s mandated reporter law you’ll learn what you can do regarding the false report. In most states you can go to court to get the record unsealed, for example, if there’s a history of someone repeatedly accusing you falsely.
See: Mandatory Reporters of Child Abuse and Neglect: Summary of State Laws.
Comment by Linda Martin — August 30, 2010 @ 10:11 pm
After reporting my daughter to CPS, who is addicted to Meth. This has broken my heart. Children and she lived with me while she recovered from previous addiction. CPS did not notify me, like they said they would, they placed children in foster care. Children are 9 and 7 years old. Case worker said she could tell me nothing, I had no rights, I could not even talk to them on the phone. I have substantial relationships with both children. They are suppose to get my info, but rely on daughter who is angry at me, they say only she can place them in my care. This is ridiculous that CPS retain these children under the advice of the individual they say is not competent as a Mother. I now have 60 days til the next hearing and judge was blown away by the fact they did not take me into consideration. Daughter didn’t even show up for hearing that day and the cps caseworker told the judge she did not want they placed with me. Judge ordered them to do a home study on me, this is against their desire. They want to keep them in foster care. A father of the eldest child wants her and has court orders giving him custody visitation and they won’t even let him see the children!!!!! He is a good Dad and he pays child support on time, even gives child more money for her to spend. WHAT is wrong with this picture????? I am way mad now, I want to make those workers lose their jobs, because they are STUPID and EVIL.
Comment by A — September 5, 2010 @ 7:01 am
I minimally thought they would help my daughter recover from this addiction. Maybe help her with parenting classes, you know…do what their website and the intake specialist says they do. SO if your a granny, don’t call CPS, take your daughter to court yourself. Have a judge order a drug test, and give you temporary custody. Have the judge do these things, CPS is a total rip off and on a power trip. They do not care nor are they interested in the best interest of the children. Judge asked worker if he had done a criminal background check on my husband and I, judge thought that might be why they weren’t considering us. Case worker said yes, judge had to ask for the results LOL. Case worker told him we didn’t have a criminal record. BLOW ME DOWN! HE still relies on daughter’s advice to never let me see the children after years of them living with us. I am their granny, they love me and want to be here. They begged me to not let their Momma take them. I can’t imagine what they are thinking now. That maybe I don’t know where they are and that they have been kidnapped, I know the 7 year old is scared witless. I am so angry they are doing this to these children, they don’t even care the trauma they putting them through. I told the worker they were accomplices to child abuse themselves. Because they denied these children their rights to familial relationships, to comfort of a trusted source. THey are the sorriest dogs in this planet.
Comment by A — September 5, 2010 @ 7:10 am
A, now you see, calling CPS is the last thing you want to do because this is what can happen. Try a state administrative hearing because Kinship care rights are being violated. Try doing this with the father. Read your state’s social services regulations in order to understand the laws. And never call CPS for “help” again. They are corrupt and work for an evil system of family destruction. They don’t care about you or the kids. All they care about is the money their county is getting from the federal government when a child is (1) in foster care and (2) adopted out to strangers.
Comment by Linda Martin — September 5, 2010 @ 9:29 am
A, there’s a section on our message board for grandparents.
Comment by Linda Martin — September 5, 2010 @ 9:30 am
My wife has schoulius and was not able to have the epidural during delivary of our first son Stanley dillan, and they gave her demerial for pain, but she was 95 pounds and they gave her a 110 pound dosage. She was in a drug induced coma for the first 24 hours. A nurse from the hospital called children and youth services and said the mother was not “bonding “with the baby and they placed little Stanley in foster care right out of the hospital its now been 5 years they involentary terminated our rights to him two years ago. we have proof they lied all over the place. Pa social services are corrupt . They made false statements to the courts and what ever the case workers say is gold . WE cannot go through our lives knowing that our little boy’s have been kidnapped by bucks county and sold to the foster parents They kept on changing our case workers evry six months and each time we had to prove ourselves to them we tried and tried and tried and tried and tried and tried and tried..They always wrote negative statements for the both of us.They told us we had to split up and obtain and maintain stability on our own if we wanted to get him back, They lied again.They cut our visets from 2 hours a week to 1 hour every other week and then finaly the day the tpr came. Those son of a bitches destroyed our family forever,and forever we hope they rot in hell !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
To our son Stanley Dillan if u ever get to read this you got to know that we tried so much we looked every where high and low, no one would help us….Unless we had 75,000 dollars for high profile lawer
One day we will be together again. No lawyer would take the case on because they did not want to sue the common wealth of pa THEY ARE CORRUPT. for 5 years we have cried our selvs to sleep
NO more….. WE WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU. May be by the time u read this Times wil be different.
Let it be known this day and forever our deaths are the result of Children and Youth Corruptness. We can not go on knowing our little one’s have been legaly kidnapped ……Our boys were conceived of nothing but pure love.
To our little Stanley, Markie and Alex Forever in our hearts we will be together again one day.Luv always Mommie and Daddy xoxoxo :(
Now will someone do something about the corrupness?
Comment by Stanley — September 27, 2010 @ 2:53 am
I have had CPS called on me when my son ran into the apt complex parking lot. I saw him and I promptly got him back to safety but someone called on me anyway. before I read this site, I did everything I was NOT sposed to do-I invited her in, I let her question my kids without my presence (which I caught bits and pieces and they made up some doozy of a story)My question is-
can I get a copy of her conversation with them? They are 4 and 6 yrs old.
Comment by Jennifer — September 28, 2010 @ 10:20 am
Jennifer, do you still have custody of your children? If so, I wouldn’t rock the boat. If they’ve taken your children, you could ask your attorney to request files including any records on the interviews. A better place to get feedback on your case is on our message board. Be sure to make up a fake name for posting there. You don’t need to reveal who you are.
Comment by Linda Martin — September 29, 2010 @ 9:30 am
stanley just stay calm. it will be okey. they took you for granted. dont stop fighting. its never over. your in my prayers.
Comment by clara — September 29, 2010 @ 3:07 pm
So i feel Cps tried to get me to sign a paper that i was not going to pick up my daughter from the hospital when she was released due to the fact that she was threating to harm herself if she did come home. Basically she wanted to show the court that i was abdanoning my daughter. My daughter is 13 and she says she wants to go to foster care. The allegations against me were found not to be true by the way.
Comment by laura — October 26, 2010 @ 5:42 am
Laura, so sorry your 13yo daughter is being difficult. Does she realize that if she goes to foster care she loses everything including home, school, friends, pets, possessions, etc? For kids it is a bit like going to jail and they end up missing their families (most of them).
Comment by Linda Martin — October 26, 2010 @ 2:27 pm
also be careful of those u think are your friend mine stole my boyfriend of 5 yrs and falsely called cps saying my lights were off and my house was a mess i had cable when she walked in so my lights were on.. my house was fine he said there was no case.
Comment by candi — November 18, 2010 @ 6:37 pm
Candi, that’s what worries me. Trust the wrong person with /any/ information on your family and that person could get upset with you and call CPS. It happens all the time. There are a lot of mentally unstable people out there who don’t have kids, who think it is funny to report someone to CPS. I’ve seen it happen over and over…
Comment by Linda Martin — November 18, 2010 @ 7:03 pm
I have a question. In Pa can a CPS worker enter another county without the escort of the other county. In Pa each county has its own CYS/CPS Agency which makes their enities jurisdictional. Further, due to a bogus false allegation by a doctor which had no merit but his vindictive intention. My female campanion co-habitated with me in my county since Feb 2010 but had to pay rent in the other county due to a locked in lease. Despite never being there the apartment was merely an obligation. After birth of baby who was an emergecy C Section and 4lb + CPS placed a hold on baby due to size and I possessing a very large reptile which indicated was a size not even recorded. Simple research would have showed this. The worker who clearly stated there was “no open case” to this day wants to meet with her alone. Un 30 days they have not built a case and were are married in live in another county not within jurisdiction. Not running just where I am from. Needlless to say that the peditrician and Health Nurse both gave remarkable reports regarding how well the child is cared for. Doubling ++ her birth weight since home. There was also a claim that low birth weight infant have a higher rate of abuse. The medical documents themself give proof that the stats do not apply here. Anybody that has any pointers please advise. I did send the CPS notice they are no longer residence of that county. They have no case and just doing their best to make this child part of their system. Considering a federal stay sunce this is pure invassion of 4th Amendment Rights and others. Any tips let me know.
Thanks in advance.
Comment by R.C. — November 18, 2010 @ 9:57 pm
RC, I’m not familiar with Pennsylvania laws. You will need to get a lawyer in your state to advise you.
Comment by Linda Martin — November 19, 2010 @ 12:26 pm
The only thing I would add is to be very careful when you visit your child’s school. Never complain about your child to a teacher or administrator. They are on the lookout for parents who seem to be unstable, especially in a low-income school district.
Comment by Amanda — December 18, 2010 @ 11:20 am
My greatgrandson(8months old) was taken by cps when my granddaughter left him with the mother of a friend for a couple of days, that lady called cps so child was taken and placed with a relative of the baby’s father(father is on drugs and has abused my granddaughter) my question is Can this relative care for the baby and work outside the home, she has some teenagers taking care of baby while she is at work, I know this because I over heard a conversation but I was not quite sure, but I have called the home where my ggrandson is and the girls who answer the phone tell me this person is at work and won’t be back til 3pm. What can I do? Who are these young girls who are taking care of my ggreatson. Do I have any rights? I am 61, strong and in good health and so is my husband.
Comment by Alice — January 2, 2011 @ 11:14 pm
Alice, you can tell the social workers that there are teenagers taking care of your grandson while the caretaker relative is at work, but it will be up to the social worker’s subjective judgement as to whether anything will be done to change the child’s placement. There are no hard and fast rules I know of about this. You could check by reading your state’s social service regulations to see if this is addressed in them. Find the regulations at your county law library.
Comment by Linda Martin — January 6, 2011 @ 12:00 pm
This Website Helps A lots of Family. who
been abuse of CPS. i Hope and Pray that will bring more Blessing and ideas To the staff and writers of this site. Thanks God
to have you….
Comment by jass — April 8, 2011 @ 8:16 pm
Thank you, Jass!
Comment by Linda Martin — April 9, 2011 @ 11:55 am
My CPS Case is in Texas. This next Monday I have to be at a Permanency Conference held at the County’s CPS Headquarters.
My letter states that the purpose of the meeting is to discuss my Son’s safety & well being and to plan to achieve permanency for him in the most efficient & effective way. I am encouraged to bring any & all support system for my son & I.
My question is, Can I legally video tape the entire Conference? Obviously, they WILL NOT WANT OR ALLOW IT! What law under Texas, US or the Constitution may I politely say in defense of the protest? I am planning on simply saying that, ” I want to take notes on today’s highly important Conference which decides the future of my Son, however it is more efficient for me to be present in the Conference discussion & by tapeing it allows me focus on what is being said.” I NEED AN ANSWER by a Tx. Lawyer ONLY!
Comment by Brooke — June 24, 2011 @ 6:54 pm
Brooke, I’m not a TX lawyer, and we have no lawyers on staff here. You can find some TX lawyers listed on our juvenile court lawyers page. You might also like to read this: http://www.rcfp.org/taping/
Comment by Linda Martin — June 27, 2011 @ 11:04 am
I just want to ask if anyone knows if I can get copies of the report that was filed against my uncle when I was 12? I am 26 now and they tried to wrongfully accuse the wrong uncle and never asked me which uncle it was that had molested me. My uncle that was accused will not even talk to me he thinks I made up the story. Please Help
Comment by ANgela Schaffner — July 4, 2011 @ 4:26 pm
Angela, you could file a request with the department of social services … and if they won’t give you the file, you would probably have to get a lawyer to help.
Comment by Linda Martin — July 5, 2011 @ 4:08 pm
My kids were taken from me after going off on a Dr that did not do what the family Dr ordered to be done. The Dr I went off on called CPA and told them I was trying to get my children unnecessary medical treatment. Which is not true the refered Dr did not do what was ordered . I have been fighting tis case for a year now. Today they gave my ex husband who has barely been in our kids lives custody. I need help fighting this. We go back to court in April 2012. Someone please help me my life has been ripped from me just for trying to find out what was wrong with one of my daughters.
Comment by kelly — October 20, 2011 @ 6:29 pm
if u get a dvp on u cps they have there u know what up there,
how come its the man , not the woman 90% woman gets a dvp on man 10% its the woman, they dont think that man gets abused from woman.
i take care of my kids im and mom and a dad at my house, and she seat on her u know what,
the cps ask my wife if she wants a divorce and its not there bee wax if she wants one or not , now she got the kids , and i have to go thou cps to see my kids and it was her not me ,and i have not seen my kids for a mo. they did the investigation they found that it was not abuse my wife and kids i think they should drop it all, but no i have to go thou them just to see my kids . now the cps is seating on there u know what taking there time on this,the cps
sucks in this town
Cps don’t do anything when with mom ,just makes dad look like bad one ,but really the kids would be better off with dad. Mom don’t feed them right,don’t put them to bed right,they don’t live in clean home,and mom just wants somebody else to watch them so she can run the rds ,
Comment by hotrod — November 18, 2011 @ 9:02 am
Hi I have a cps case with my 18 month old daughter..me and my two daughters were living in a state home after cps removed me from my mother.. While living there my 3 month old daughter passed away.. About a week later the home forcefully sent me to a mental hospital because they said they were afraid I was going to commit suiside over the greevment.. While I was there cps put my other daughter in foster care for neglect..after I was forced to go.. Is this right?
Comment by Tiffanie — April 5, 2012 @ 10:37 pm