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Child Protective Services, CPS, has devastated and destroyed hundreds of thousands of families in America during the last thirty years leaving a trail of broken hearts, broken dreams, and shattered childhoods.
Rather than helping families, government agents have used unconstitutional laws in Juvenile Court to rip children away from their loving parents, break asunder God-given, natural, parent-child bonds, and adopt the children of the grieving out to others who profit financially with large monthly adoption subsidy payments.
Child Protective Services must be stopped! The law that started this, CAPTA, must be repealed. We must work tirelessly to inform the public of this very dangerous travesty of justice. We must keep faith knowing that if there is a God, there is an answer and a way to end this heartache.
Child Protective Services Agents - please come to your senses! Family destruction on false or trivial grounds is wrong, reprehensible, and inhumane.
Fosterers - be aware that for the money you get you are holding much-loved children away from their grieving families while the parents are forced to perform a service plan that is anything but a service to them. I call this hostage holding for the government. This is not kindness - to help misguided government agents destroy family relationships and break loving bonds.
CPS workers and fosterers - I ask that you now let the children of the innocent return to their homes where they are truly valued, adored, and loved by the parents God gave them.
Family rights are God-given rights. And they should not be ignored or postponed. Every moment these loving parents and children spend separated from one another is a torment beyond what anyone should ever have to bear.
It is unworthy of human dignity to allow this terrorism and torture of families to go on without saying something, speaking out, and trying to make a change.
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This comment is to anyone visiting this site…
My name is JoLisa Lindbloom and I have been victimized by CPS my whole life. I know what it is like on both sides of the fence.
As a good mother does, I still grieve every day for the injustice that has been done to me and my children.
There are so many of us in every US. State, City and County who have been victimized by CPS. Our children suffer even more than we do as parents. When we see the damage and abuse being done to them, it only hurts us more.
We are powerless and parylized by this God-Awful organization and have not been able to protect our children form the very people who claim need protection from us.
I am trying my best to find loop-holes around the law to fight back. I am not just doing this for my kids. I’m doing it for EVERYONE who are now, or have been stripped of their God-Given rights.
So many of our children have been lost in the system. Parental rights have been terminated.
If we are going to do anything to get our power back, we have to stand united and fight for all of it.
I haven’t seen my oldest son in 10 years. I don’t know where to begin to find him and get him back.
Together we can.
Comment by JoLisa Lindbloom — July 2, 2008 @ 1:30 pm
I’m leaving my contact information and the basic information that could lead to finding the laws that could help me get my son back.
I think that if everyone does this when they leave a comment here, it can mean the difference between getting our kids back, no matter if the case is open or parental rights were already terminated, and losing the fight to get them back.
My son was born in Burien Washington State on April 17, 1994. His birth given name is Joseph Aaron-Lee Shaver.
Joseph was taken on his 4th birthday in Lansing Michigan on April 17, 1998.
Because of my court appointed attorney, I admitted to all 10 of the allegations, under durress.
I had to leave in October of 1998 returning to Washington State because I was in danger of losing my life if I stayed.
CPS did not just take him away. They DESTROYED him! They abused and neglected him.
He would beg me to hide him when our supervised visits ended every time. He begged me to sneak him out. He begged me to protect him. He was scared and lonely. It made me feel even more helpless because I failed.
Does that sound like a child who was given justice to you?
I haven’t seen him in 10 years, but I will never forget a single detail of my tragedy.
I will never stop crying at night until I have him safe with me again.
I will always be haunted by every tear, every cry for help, and the overwhelming desire to die when I said good bye to him for the last time.
I never signed away my parental rights to him. I hope that counts for something.
Not knowing what happened to him since I left is torture.
I post messages here, I post them on findme.com, I post them on zabasearch.com. I’m still looking for other places to post, hoping that he sees them, or someone who knows him.
I’m hoping that I will see him again. I pray that he is safe and happy. In my heart, I feel like he’s suffering.
Please, if you have any information that can help me, no matter how insignificant it may seem, let me know. Even if you aren’t sure.
Stand with me and fight back. I’m tired of being powerless, aren’t you?
You can reach me at:
lindbloom_jm@yahoo.com
PO Box 44162 Tacoma WA 98448
253-212-6978
Help us help eachother.
Comment by JoLisa Lindbloom — July 2, 2008 @ 2:05 pm
Why does such an agency exist?
Comment by DB — July 2, 2008 @ 8:17 pm
Why does such an agency exist? What does Congress say about this?
Comment by DB — July 2, 2008 @ 8:17 pm
Hello everyone, I want to let you know that Appealing is crucial and the time to appeal is when due process was violated as soon as possible. Also, keep all your evidence on your side that is helpfull at every stage in the proceedings involving what the cps doesn’t do and does. Also tell your attorney to get you a tort form to sue if the cps or courts did not allow due process before six months pass by. In the mean time contact the local congress. Traditional values coalition on the internet. Write to them and let your vioice be heard. Even contact the president himself. I was not allowed due process of my civil rights by them not giving me a attorney at the critical stages in the court hearings and I am in appeal. I feel the cps do not re-unite the family because they lable people through faulse unsubstainiated alligations that they do not let you fight for your right to proove faulse. They are children stealers for money. Remember complaine alot to everyone and let your and our voice be herd someday hopefully soon someone will answer and help.
Comment by Lyne Obrien — July 2, 2008 @ 10:08 pm
I live in grand island nebraska cps was called on me for several faulse alligation they came into my house with a detective my daughter told them to wait at the door they followed her down stairs to my room woke me up out of a dead sleep when i was slow to respond not being awake yet they accused me of being on drugs and comming down i told them to leave get out of my house they said if i didnt give up urine i was gonna loose my eleven year old child and my daughter and two grand children couldnt live with me anymore so now my daughter and two grand children are homeless because i refuse to give up body fluids and let them serch my home the only thing they found true from the caller is that I had a possum who had already been given to a wild life refugy. this is still up in the air they also told my daughter that they were going to take her children from her if she didnt comply with there wishes the children are tore up because we have taken them out of there home it would be devastating for any one to take them even for a hour and probably impact them for life this is just a small part of what was done to me I now have a warrant for my arrest for a court date i missed over a month ago the charge was a city ordnance i have two vehicles that need to be plated not even mine but they sit on my property
Comment by tammy dumas — July 3, 2008 @ 4:56 am
Hello!
My name is Candace I live in Calgary, Alberta, Canada. My rights as a good mother of a beautiful 5 year old girl have been stripped from me. I am only in day 2 of my turmoil and I already feel completely helpless and absolutely appalled and secluded by what CPS is doing to me. On Tuesday night my daughter was in my care and was in the shower while I was in the living room, like she has done plenty of times before. I heard a very loud thud and rushed into the washroom with my bf in front. She was lying in the tub on her back, with her arms bent up and fingers tensed with an irregular breathing pattern and jaw firmly clenched. My bf picked her up immediately and took her into my bed. We tried to get her to respond and come to with no avail. That lasted a minute. I then instantly called 911. The fire dept came first, with ems in toe. The police also followed after them. I went in the ambulance with them to the hospital in absolute SHOCK. When arriving at the hospital obviously it was very frantic with a lot of people running all over the place to help my child. They took her for a CT scan first off, after they had given her a vast amount of medication to sedate her and relax her joints. After the CT scan I was “ripped” from my child’s side to be taken downtown to the police station being detained and questioned for assault. I cooperated completely with them, even thought deep down inside I was unbelievably disgusted that they would do such a thing so instantly with nothing to go on. Now like I said it is 48 hours later I was told today about what THEY (being CPS) decided for my child as CPS seems to always do from the untold amount of stories about these people I have read thus far. They stated that I and my bf am only to have supervised visits with her and she will be going with her father after she is able to be discharged. Even though the testing is still ongoing with no solid conclusions but what they choose to make up in their very selfish and abusive minds. On the other hand the best news today was that her breathing tube has come out and she is breathing on her own fine and today she came around and was even responding and talking very softly, let me tell you how very comforting this was for me as a mother and bearer of my sweet child to see her at least being as much of herself as she could be under the circumstances. They then did a second spinal tap on her and she has recessed to being unresponsive which absolutely saddens me and breaks my heart especially as they do these same tests over and over again always ending in no conclusion. I obviously am seeking a lawyer tomorrow as I find all of this much too extreme for a simple fall that could have happened anywhere, to anyone, at anytime. As I understand their investigation I find the immediate pointing of fingers to be in absolute distaste, repulsive, and utterly absurd!!!!!! These people (CPS workers) are no older than me and obviously much less intelligent, with no mind as to destroy nothing but complete loving families, and to remove children from the best home to the much less equal one with the part time father who has never even spent more than a long weekend with his daughter, let alone helped with her AT ALL when she was an infant. While I have been there stay at home for 3 years straight and always been there while he went out and partied which he still continues to do. I am praying for complete justice and feel confident and strong that if the truth won’t prevail I WILL MAKE IT!!! All I can do is tell the truth and be honest and also pray for the best and the best is for my child to never be without her mother!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Comment by Candace — July 4, 2008 @ 12:46 am
I would like to offer my paralegal services to anyone who has NOT yet had their kids snatched. I have been fighting CPS in California for 9 years, the longest period he was ever in foster care was 47 hours. Do NOT let these people in unless they have a valid search warrant served by an officer, no warrant, no entry. Do NOT talk to them or return their calls. Have an advocate or an attorney do that for you. If you have any evidence at home of a felony, get rid of it, like an unlicensed firearm, illegal substances you don’t have an RX for and lock up anything that could possibly be used against you in case they come with a warrant. Then do NOT speak to them. The child is entitled to separate legal counsel at any interview, and the child can be taught to request counsel before speaking. There is nothing “uncooperative” about any of this, it is your right as a US citizen under the 4th, 5th and 14th Amendments. aovitsky@ca.rr.com.
Comment by a.j. ovitsky — July 4, 2008 @ 11:02 am
The ONLY grounds in California for removal of a child without a warrant is “imminent physical danger.”
Make sure you always have up-to-date medical records, particularly school immunizations. Make sure your house is clean (no trash or dirty dishes laying around). Put any kind of adult entertainment (porn) in a locked drawer or concealed spot. If you take drugs, get a doctor’s prescription for them. If you have a weapon, license it. If you homeschool, follow licensing procedures. The most important thing is to remain calm, stand your ground and do not speak or act out of fear, under duress or manipulation. Refuse to be manipulated. This is the best test of your parenting skills and if you are a good parent you can do it. CPS workers are no different in this situation than playground bullies. Do not submit to scare tactics.
Comment by a.j. ovitsky — July 4, 2008 @ 11:11 am
Vey good advice, a.j. ovitsky. Unfortunately, most of us learn this too late. Even though you may have already began “cooperating”, doesn’t mean that you must continue. Especially, if you are the only one cooperating. Learn their policies, procedures and protocols. Learn the statutes that your particular case entails. Learn how not to remain a victim of CPS. Sometimes, you have to say “enough is enough.”
Comment by daaronad — July 4, 2008 @ 11:50 am
Candace in Alberta:
Connect up with Canadian site.
http://www.fixcas.com
Located in the Eastern provinces, but can possibly direct u toward Western-specific information & resources
Best. F.
Comment by Fern — July 4, 2008 @ 3:18 pm
aovitsky@ca.rr.com.
I would like to talk to you about my case, you email is comming up invaild.
Cps has done me so wrong.
please call me
650-669-3976
Comment by Aaron — July 5, 2008 @ 12:02 pm
Happy belated July 4th everyone!
My situation is getting worse by the minute. My mother’s c*nt-trolling ‘partner’ is lying about me cursing it out a my son’s t-ball game! Never happened though. I was there with a few friends with me all the time. there were also tons of other people there, including 2 cops! I’m not quite as dumb as I look or sound, but I do have more sense than to cuss out anyone, or even curse in front of a bunch of 4 & 5 yr. olds. My little guy was so glad to see me & begged me to take him home! I love him more than ANYTHING & it’s not my fault his grandmother & her ‘thing’ are alienatining my precious children from me. They can’t prevent me from cheering him on at his t-ball. Glad i’m leaving this hellhole town next month to move to a city that has competent family law attornies. These dark entities can say what they want about me, but Karma does work. I AM NEVER GIVING UP ON MY BABIES> SARAH, ROBERT, and HALEIGH I LOVE YOU MORE THAN ANYTHING!
Comment by Susan — July 5, 2008 @ 4:22 pm
Here’s a great website that can be benificial to all the victims here:
http://www.peepsheet.com/
You can EXPOSE the evil CPS workers, lawyers, judges, nasty exes, ex friends, horrid relatives, bosses, whatever! THIS IS ALL DONE ANONOUSLY! It takes about 15 min. if you have a Yahoo Account, so I’m waiting to get this set up.
Yep, I’m gonna submit PAGES FULL!
Comment by Susan — July 6, 2008 @ 2:52 am
I wish I had found this site 4 years ago when this nightmare with CPS began for me. It is so reassuring to hear comments and know I an not the only one facing this difficult time in my life. It seems so unamerican to me I was thinking on the July 4th, that someone I do not really like is spending all the important Holidays with my daughter and not me.I guess it is selfish but I usually breakdown on Birthdays and Holidays, it passes but it is very real and does not lose intensity with passing of time. I feel quite alone in this but God is with us all I know that is real. Take care all parents whose parental rights have been violated, we will overcome.
Comment by Linda Pinkowski — July 6, 2008 @ 7:06 pm
My name is Heather and i am here beacusse cps took my daughter from me . Her father has a miss communactions problem and he told help me grow that he pick my daughter up by her arms, when really he was only playing with her (not hurting her ) and the day they took
her she was in a car actsadent and several other thing have gone wrong and when the took her nothing was wrong !! not to mentchen the never told me about the car asadent !!!
Comment by heather mock — July 7, 2008 @ 12:41 pm
my daughter had her 4 children removed from her home, they will not let me have them because i was hotlined in 1997. I was not charged with anything and i was able to see my grandchildren and then all of a sudden i can’t see them. Most, importantly, one of my grandsons passed away in state custody in a foster care home 5-30-08. We are awaiting the autopsy report. My daughter is unstable but I am stable and she is about to lose them all for good. i really need some legal help.
Comment by m kimble — July 7, 2008 @ 1:36 pm
For the grandparents posting here-
There is an organization called
Grandsplace.org.
These grandparents do not (last time I looked) advocate suing fit parents for visitation or custody, rather hey provide support for grandparents raising grandchildren and fighting CPS for custody, etc.
This group has been in existence for over a decade.
I highly recommend that any grandparent here fighting CPS go to the grandsplace.org website.
Comment by maggie — July 7, 2008 @ 6:10 pm
My ex mother in law has been calling cps services randomly over the past 9 years. My current husband and I moved with the children to Florida from Massachusetts and my ex husband has moved to a few different states and is currently in West Virginia. She has called DSS CPS in Massachusetts on myself but not her son not realizing because we were married it affected him as well. She mentioned only our oldest daughter.
We have had problems on and off since 2003, she has called the police, sheriff, DCF CPS, and the children’s school prompting an excessive amount of investigations.
She is now contacting West Virginia and telling the sheriff and DHHR CPS that my husband may be molesting my oldest daughter. The children have had NO contact with this woman for a year and the children have been visiting with their dad in West Virginia for the last month + she just called with these allegation 2 days ago. She did not call Florida where we live, but West Virginia where the children are asking that they be forced to have an exam to check for abuse.
Every report made has been closed as unfounded.
This most recent report she has made is horrendous. My husband has NEVER done anything to my children other than love them and care for them. My ex husband agrees with this and had told the police that he knows they must have CPS out to his home to check the children, but that it is only going to damage their psyche further and put bad thoughts and feelings into their heads.
This new allegation was made because my ex husband does not allow his mother to have unsupervised visitation because his mother is unstable and has told the children stories and caused a lot of problems in both my household and his household with the children.
We have both had the children in therapy to help them make sense of this and everytime we get the children, particularly our oldest back on track, my ex mother in law starts the process over again.
What can we do? CPS in none of the states will help us they just keep harassing us with their investigations and I am truly at my wits end.
My children do not deserve this, my husband and ex husband do not deserve this nor does our extended families. What can we do to stop this monster?
Please help my family.
Catherine Huffman
bobscatherine@verizon.net
Comment by Catherine Huffman — July 8, 2008 @ 8:40 am
hello my name is nikki. my mom brought this website to my attention because i am currently in a situation with cps in garrett county md. i came under investigation by them for neglect because my kids said something to the school (i didnt find out any of this until they were already involved) were left at home alone at night. (i found out later the person i entrusted to watch my kids while i when to work wasnt there) after reading this website i have realized i have done everything ya’ll said not to. ooopppss. well i was in a pickle at the time upset and thought they would help me. i have gotten back on my feet have a job. but when i told cps of my work hours being they are 9-5 i was told that i HAVE to do there ’service plan’ and i HAVE to me with the social worker everyweek. there service plan is that myself and my kids must all go into counseling but they didnt say what for. i have to have parent counselng and my oldest son must go back into sexual abuse counseling which is and issue that has already been delt with. now a single parent working 9-5 with three kids in football and there daycare in wv. i have no time to meet all these requirements i was told that i HAVE to or they will take me to court and either court order me to do as they say or determine whether they will put my kids in foster care. Nobody is going to touch my kids.i am trying to nip this in the but , but upon speaking with a public defender today he said that cps has the right to take my kids out of my home with no orders. after that they have to get something within 24 hours. somebody advise me help me!!!!!!!
Comment by nikki — July 8, 2008 @ 1:30 pm
I would RUN LIKE HELL out of that county & leave NO forwarding address. I should have done that while they were ‘visiting’ my home on a weekly basis (a WITCH HUNT) used to gather evidence (real or perceived) against you. Please listen to me…this is VERY BAD!
Comment by Susan — July 8, 2008 @ 1:58 pm
CPS shouldn’t have jurisdiction in other counties in non-abuse cases & with the current state of the economy, they don’t have the funds to actively pursue non-abuse cases, especially in other jurisdictions. Too bad I didn’t know this back in 05 & 06.
Comment by Susan — July 8, 2008 @ 2:00 pm
-Well for those of yoiu who are new and do not know my story it is posted in a letter I wrote to various government agencies. I posted the letter on the June guestbook.
- We have gotten a letter from CPS stating the the charge of sexual abuse against my husband has been ruled out. That’s right—RULED OUT. So why do we still have a court date? Why does he still have to take a day of work off once a month to see a probations officer? Why hasn’t the District Attorney even looked at the case file?
- Now even the dreaded CPS agency says it didn’t happen , yet our lives are on hold still. The district attorney tells our lawyer that she will look at the letter from CPS and the case file….” When she gets to it”. It is unbelievable to me that in this country a man can have his life turned upside down by nothing more than an accusation. And then to add insult to injury the government can keep it upside down until they ” Feel like ” fixing it. In the mean time our lives are held in limbo.
- My daughter will remain with my mother. Too much damage has been done for there to be any kind of uniting of our family. As much as it hurts my heart I beleive my daughter has permanently shattered our family beyond repair. Now I have two pieces of my family that I try to spend time with. On the one side I have my husband who is a wonderful father and husband, and my son and beautiful 1 year old baby girl. On the other hand I have my angry young lady who is making life harder for herself than it has to be.
- At some point CPS has to step back and take a look at itself and make adjustments. I am amazed that it has gone on the way it is for so long. Here in Texas there has been some progress. Thanks to the polygamist ranch mess. If nothing else it has at least brought to light some of the struggles we discuss here. Please pray for us all. I beleive we still have a long hard fight ahead of us.
Comment by Jodie — July 8, 2008 @ 3:31 pm
My name is Ayanna. I had all 5 of my children removed by DYFUS Jan 07′ with no just cause for removal. As I was about to come out of my sons daycare from picking him up with my other 4 children, DYFUS and 3 cop cars, 2 men deep approached us and told me that they we’re going to have to take my children from me.They put us into a car, and took us home for me to pack bags of clothes for my kids to leave me. My oldest son who was 11 at the time went into his bedroom closet and stripped down to his underwear and begged me not to make him go. In the distance of my kitchen you could hear the police laughing. My son asked me “How can they laugh when we are in here dying?” I will never ever forget that day!! I will never ever forgive DYFUS for destroying my family!!! My children are currently their paternal grandparents&aunt.
They are mistreated there. Both families are given monthly grants per child and a clothing allowance per child for my kids to be there. My kids hardly eat. They are left in the house by themselves 3days out of the week while the aunt & husband are @ work. They have been physically attacked. They are always being verbally bashed. The kicker is that thier sperm donor lives in the basement of the same house that they live in & he does nothing about it.Unification has been granted to my family,the only delay is that I don’t have adequate housing.I’ve been going back & fourth to family court for the past several months with this case. My DYFUS worker Adam Janeic of Central Passaic DYFUS has told the judge @ the past few court appearances that there are no programs to help my family reunite. That is absolutely false!! I recently learned of a program called the Family Unification Program (FUP). All my worker has to do is send a referral to PHA to have my family enrolled into the program.He has yet to do so.He has done a great diservice to my family by dening us the appropriate services that could have reunited us a long time ago.
If any1 knows how I can go about making my worker do his job to enroll us into the program, or who I can contact to get the ball rolling in our court,please contact me.I’ve tried going over his head,it doesn’t work. His superior is just as ignorant as he is,and so on and so fourth.
What I want to know is who is policing DYFUS?? Who monitors that in fact they are doing the right thing for mothers and children??That thier actions are just??
Comment by Ayanna Oliver — July 9, 2008 @ 11:42 am
nikki….
Let your worker and and all parties involved judge,lawyer,etc.know that you have no problem complying with services.
The only thing that you ask is that they are set to accomadate your work schedule.Days missed means hours and money lost that you are supporting your children and maintaining your bills and household with.
Comment by Ayanna Oliver — July 9, 2008 @ 12:02 pm
Just wanted to let you all know we had some fun with parasites who work for the SS in my town. Two weeks ago we had our summer celebration here, ya know big parade and all that. My friend and I who have both been through their version of Hell found out that the SS had a parade entry. But you know rather than give candy they were handing out their propaganda, little books for kids about child abuse, domestic violence, their normal BS.
The time was right for a big slice of vengence. The parade came right by my house we were ready. I pulled the garden hose to the front. Filled several water balloons and a few special ones with paint and dirty motor oil and had some fun.
We hit several politicians who were in the parade with water balloons to thank them for the $4.00 gas, but saved the special ones for the SS. I got the one witch who has caused so much pain in my life right in the face with a paint balloon. My friend unloaded on em with several others. And our kids gave em the garden hose treatment, ya know clean em up. The best part was the crowd reaction people loved it. They laughed when we hit the politicians but the cheers were loudest for hitting these bastards. The next block they left the parade.
Mission accomplished.
Was it wrong? I really don’t give a damm, what they do on a daily basis is evil. Hit the slimebags where it hurts em the most, public humiliation.
If they show up next year I’ll have the tar and feathers ready.
Comment by Kurt V. — July 9, 2008 @ 12:22 pm
Kurt v., Wish I could have been there, thats great, good for you , way to let them know, thats funny can’t stop laughing.
Comment by christy — July 9, 2008 @ 1:03 pm
I am sorry to report that this website and all whom has written into it has had their 1st Ammendment violated!
Per CPS/DHS anything that is written on this Website can and will be used against you… At least in the State of Michigan….
If you write anything about Judge Susan Dobrich or Kim Vincent it will be used against a certain party in court (which is illegal) However, all Constitutional Rights are being ignored…
Geez, what are we going to have to do about that?
I have been threatened by a certain Caseworker from the State of Michigan, more than once….
I have it on recording and now appearantly on court record…
Can’t wait to face her in court!
See ya soon!
Comment by Diando — July 9, 2008 @ 8:43 pm
I am sorry to report that this website and all whom has written into it has had their 1st Ammendment violated!
Per CPS/DHS anything that is written on this Website can and will be used against you… At least in the State of Michigan….
If you write anything about Judge Susan Dobrich or Kim Vincent it will be used against a certain party in court (which is illegal) However, all Constitutional Rights are being ignored…
Geez, what are we going to have to do about that?
I have been threatened by a certain Caseworker from the State of Michigan, more than once….
I have it on recording and now appearantly on court record…
Can’t wait to face her in court!
See ya soon!
However, not in the light that you want!
Comment by Diando — July 9, 2008 @ 8:43 pm
Did I get my message across?
Comment by Diando — July 9, 2008 @ 8:44 pm
CPS has been in my life since i was at the age of 6. I am 21 years old now and they still have not gone away.
I have 3 children and they were taken away from me by a false CPS call. Story is this.
I was pregnant with my last son when this all started. I had been getting harassment calls and threats by people who were not my friends anymore. Being scared for my children I asked around to friends if I could stay with them. Finally my ex who is the father of both my kids said it was ok to stay with him at his house. He lives with his mom and sister and his brother also. I was trying to leave my home and move to a safe area with my kids. My ex boyfriend lived in nevada and he had offered me to fly out to see if I would like it there and if I did then I could move there.
I got a ticket and flew out. My ex and his mom and I had an agreement. She would watch my son but my daughter was not allowed to stay with them. They didnt know she was theirs so they said they didnt want her there. I had asked my friend to watch her and I told her I would pay her for watching her while I was gone for a few days. She was ok with it and my ex boyfriends sister dropped her off after she dropped me off at the airport.
2 days after I had left I got a call from my ex telling me my daughter was missing and my son was taken away from them by CPS. I got the earliest ticket i could out and flew home. I talked to the grandmother of my kids and I asked her what happened. She said they just came and took him. I told her we needed to fight to get them back. I was told court was in a few days about all of this.
I go to court and read the report on why my kids were taken away. Reasons were I stayed up late, i had red bumps on my face which they all thought was from meth, and i abondoned my son and left my daughter in an infested drug motel. I never knew the motel was infested only because I use to stay there with my ex so he could visit his son since he was not allowed at my house. They said mother left to be with an ex and didnt have proper care for her child. He had medical and my daughter didnt. Welfare wouldnt give her medical until a month before all this happened.
Instead of returning my kids to me they placed my son with his father who is a felon and did drugs and his crazy mother who beats him and his brother also. my daughter was put in foster care and still remains there.
My social worker never followed up on the case plan. She gave me my case plan a month before the 6th month review. She only did a few things from my case plan. June was the last court date I had. They wanted to terminate my rights to my daughter. they said well mother never did her drug test, she never did the parenting class or anything.
I followed the case plan the way the social worker gave it to me and they were giving me a hard time. Now I have only a few months to do what court ordered. The social worker ignores my questions about my case plan and still hasnt done anything when i ask.
Comment by Karina — July 9, 2008 @ 10:18 pm
I am a survivor of cps. I say survivor because thanks only to my Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, the King, Lord of Lords, I am able to breathe without feeling like I’m gasping for air because of the pain inflicted upon be by not just a corrupt, but evil empire and the ruler is satan.
I danced with the devil (the real evil one behind all of this destruction) and then I quit!
I realized that I wasn’t going to win this sick twisted game of the enemy, so I’ve given it over to the Lord to handle for me, and I suggest we all do the same! That’s the only way we’re really going to find true justice, even if it doesn’t happen until after the Lord returns.
Psalm 55:22-23
22 Cast your cares on the LORD
and He will sustain you;
He will never let the righteous fall.
23 But you, O God, will bring down the wicked
into the pit of corruption;
bloodthirsty and deceitful men
will not live out half their days.
But as for me, I trust in you.
MOTHERS; FATHERS; HONEST AND KIND ONES WHO TRULY LOVE THE CHILDREN AND DESERVE TO RAISE THEM, those of us who truly have been wronged, we need to cast our cares on the Lord.
You see, this battle isn’t just between us (the above mentioned) and them (cps agents, and their fellow corrupt counterparts)
Ephesians 6:10-18
10 Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of His might.
11 Put on the full armor of God, so that you will be able to stand firm against the schemes of the devil.
12 For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places.
13 Therefore, take up the full armor of God, so that you will be able to resist in the evil day, and having done everything, to stand firm.
14 Stand firm therefore, HAVING GIRDED YOUR LOINS WITH TRUTH, and HAVING PUT ON THE BREASTPLATE OF RIGHTEOUSNESS,
15 and having shod YOUR FEET WITH THE PREPARATION OF THE GOSPEL OF PEACE;
16 in addition to all, taking up the shield of faith with which you will be able to extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one.
17 And take THE HELMET OF SALVATION, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.
18 With all prayer and petition pray at all times in the Spirit, and with this in view, be on the alert with all perseverance and petition for all the saints,
God and us (humans, His ultimate creation, as we are made in His image) make up a family unit. It was not God’s will for us to be separated from the love of God, and for us to suffer or to die. But because of sin, we became separated from God’s love, and our years on earth were shortened. Then, God gave us THE way back to Him: Jesus Christ.
John 3:16-18
16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.
18 Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe stands condemned already because he has not believed in the name of God’s one and only Son.
The enemy(satan and demons, fallen angels who became wicked and turned against God) hate God. What better way to “stick it” to God, than through that which God loves the most: US, people, God’s children. That’s why the devil is hitting where it hurts the most, by not just attacking us individually, but by ripping us apart through the destruction of our families. One person for Christ to fight against the enemy is good, a family for Christ, united to fight against the enemy, is much much better. Time is running out for the enemy, so He’s working even harder to hurt God, and to weaken the numbers against him.
We must realize this truth, and band together to combat this evil.
You see, in the beginning, I thought any legal proceedings, would have justice. Once I got involved with cps, my eyes were opened. You can’t win against an organization in which it’s members wielding the injustice face little to no penalties. It wont matter how much you adhere to their “rules”, you’re just a pawn on their chess board, what happens to you is all up to their discretion. They don’t care about the children, they don’t care about doing what’s right. They just care about the appearance of doing good and the money they make off of the false appearance of good.
Hebrews 10:30-31
30 For we know Him who said, “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” and again, “The Lord will judge his people.”
31 It is a dreadful thing to fall into the hands of the living God.
Romans 12: 14-21
14 Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse.
15 Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.
16 Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited.
17 Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody.
18 If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.
19 Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord.
20 On the contrary:
“If your enemy is hungry, feed him;
if he is thirsty, give him something to drink.
In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.”
21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
More Than Conquerors
Romans 8:28-39
28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
29 For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the likeness of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers.
30 And those he predestined, he also called; those he called, he also justified; those he justified, he also glorified.
31 What, then, shall we say in response to this? If God is for us, who can be against us?
32 He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all—how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things?
33Who will bring any charge against those whom God has chosen? It is God who justifies.
34 Who is he that condemns? Christ Jesus, who died—more than that, who was raised to life—is at the right hand of God and is also interceding for us.
35 Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword?
36As it is written:
“For your sake we face death all day long;
we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered.”
37 No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us.
38For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers,
39 neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Prayer is the only true weapon we can utilize that will bring about the changes we need to survive. We may not be around to witness the end of this abuse of power and destruction of family, but know it will end and until it does, we who are it’s victims, can become survivors. We can have peace, through Jesus Christ, our Victor. I suggest we all agree in prayers Saturdays and Sundays, (bot days, for those who believe the sabbath is Saturday and those who believe it is Sunday) Let us pray good things. Prayers of peace, forgiveness, healing, justice, etc.
Lord Jesus, I pray right now in your name, against the powers and principalities of darkness that are using people to do what the devil is here for, to “rob, kill, and destroy”, I rebuke the works of the enemy and I plead the blood of the lamb Jesus Christ over this website, and over every person who has been vilified, and unjustly treated, and have wrongly had their children taken, and mistreated. I pray Lord Jesus that you heal our hearts, and our lives, I pray that you surround us with your love and peace. I pray for mercy on us, for forgiveness for those hurting us, and for justice. In Jesus name, all those agree with me, say AMEN! God bless us all!
Comment by GodHelpedMe aka Ineedhelp — July 9, 2008 @ 11:17 pm
Amen! Beautifully written! God Bless you too!
Comment by Susan — July 10, 2008 @ 5:49 am
Karina…
When you appear for your next court appearance, have your lawyer request a 3 month extention to allow you time to complete all mandated programs.
I hope this info helps.
Comment by Ayanna Oliver — July 10, 2008 @ 11:43 am
I already have an extension until Nov. The judge was wrong on the law so they extended it until then. Still my social worker wont help me get the needed services that court has ordered. I have emailed her twice in the past week and shes only responded to my drug test question. She also knows that my son is not in the safest place yet she keeps him there.
Comment by Karina — July 10, 2008 @ 2:14 pm
My son and his wife recently had their 21 month old and newborn removed from them by CPS. CPS had no facts when removing these children only allegations not yet proven but they took these babies and will not return them to their parents or me until a background check is done. I am the paternal grandmother, I am a nurse and live in a drug free environment. The 21 month old knows and loves me and would at least be with someone she knows, but they tell me it will take three weeks for a background check for me to get them. In the meantime the CPS caseworker is recommending I do not get them because I am telling them I will get a lawyer to fight for our rights if they cannot prove anything b ut still took these babies.
I spoke with the CPS caseworker and stated that if I find he has no facts I will contact a lawyer to see what actions we can take against CPS. This caseworker stated that because I said that, that he was going to recommend that I do not be given care of these children because I am high risk. I ask you..how is saying I am gettting a lawyer make me high risk in caring for my grandchildren?
This caseworker has stated things in documents given to my son and daughter in law that have not been proven a fact..they are alledged by the CPS caseworker and are false accusations. They flat out lied and yet they say they are working for the best interest of the children and their safety. They will not even allow us to have our rightful visits to these children. I have yet to see my newest grandchild because I was on vacation when she was born.
How can CPS keep us from these babies without proof they are they are in any danger.
Both girls are healthy and not abused in any way..this we can prove but no one will let us.
Comment by Joyce Green — July 10, 2008 @ 5:09 pm
Joyce-
Which state are you in?
Maggie
Comment by Maggie — July 10, 2008 @ 5:24 pm
It is difficult to believe an organization such as CPS not only exists but is generously funded with tax payers money. I’m looking for the route to legislative action to work reform (if possible). I live in So. Calif. Ideas would be appreciated. Am a grandmother of a girl needlessly trapped in the system.
Loved the peepsheet connection and will check it out! Everyone needs to make noise.
The “hit” parade was a hoot! Well done effort.
Marilyn
Comment by Marilyn von Kuhlberg — July 10, 2008 @ 8:47 pm
I believe in the oath I took to practice medicine which states first do no harm. I had to report a concern of too many injuries to 2 girls of a state child abuse investigator and believe that the mother of these 2 girls with more than 29 injuries (skull, jaw, leg and arm fractures plus a NEAR SIDS event sometime in infancy) has MBP/apnea. I have been suspended from the practice of medicine for almost nine years and have been retaliated against and persecuted for having done so. The father of these girls is also the first cousin to the mother as per information supplied by a sister in law. The NEAR SIDS records on the older girl were concealed and still have been concealed from every phyisican caring for these girls. The mother told all the records were lost in the Navy and the prosecuting counsel for the RI Medical Board wrote “just because a mother tells the records were lost in the military does not mean she concealed them.” Yet the mother and prosecutor were going to suspend me for the false allegation that I took the records which noone was ever given by the mother. The entire unbelievable story is at gmillsmd.com. It only proves one thing- as another physician told me- “the practice of medicine is a country club and if they don’t want you they will get rid of you.” What is most egregious is protecting a family where abuse is taking place. The state of R.I. never once interviewed the girls or the mother because her cousing and husband, father of these girls is a state employee. Randall Alexander, M.D. had it right when he reviewed a redacted set of medical records on these girls, ” investigation would rule it in or out.” No investigation ever took place. This is outrageous but another example of RI politics.
Comment by Geraldine Mills, M.D. — July 11, 2008 @ 7:54 am
I got another GREAT website for y’all!
CrookedCivilServants.com
Add your corrupt CPS excuse for a judge. I added the DISHONORABLE Julie Marshall!
Comment by Susan — July 11, 2008 @ 2:43 pm
update. hey if anyone can help me start a website, i will accept yr help.
A mental health nurse who I only know as “sandy’ from LA county mental health SMART with Wilshire substation of LAPD questioned my son who is still in dcsf custody about his schooling and she told him she did not think homeschooling was a good idea for him, he told her she is crazy, he loves it. Then she told me the same thing, I just called my son and compared notes. This mental health nurse who came into my home on a false pretense told me I was paranoid for asking her for ID, which she continuously refused, and she also refused a business card told me she would put max in a foster home if I did not let her into my home so she could see I was alright, against my better judgment I did let her in, established my sanity and she continued to refuse ID. I did report her to the on duty sergeant at LAPD, he knows who she is and I filed a formal report against her and also reported her to state licensing b/c I believe her behavior falls way below the standard of professional care. She repeatedly stated to me that homeschooling max is not good for him and she thinks it is a bad idea and that he does not have friends, I said, he just came back from a week at teen camp where he made 160 new friends and had not one social problem and no meds, this is true, he did just do that, I told her I would follow up with the organization that sponsored that so he could have more of a social life. I called dcsf today as well as mental health, asking for parenting classes and for someone specifically that can accommodate my need to use assistive technology not speech to communicate.
Sandy refused to use assistive technology, in direct violation of my civil rights under California statutory law and in violation of the ADA and section 504 of the Rehab code, I think it is. I can get you the citations. I can report SMART and LAPD for an EEOC complaint, an Unruh complaint, and that would be embarrassing for LAPD but pretty typical of how they do things.
I have two expert reports from 2005 both state max is a genius and that he needs a self paced educational program and I supplied dcsf with report cards and they all are showing he is enrolled and at grade level and his teacher has written glowing warm fuzzy comments about him. He actually did two years of work in less than a year and a half, and maybe it is the old school district or our past catching up with us, maybe this is what they wanted to see, how he has done in school, since that is why they put him away in the first place.
Cps has stated they have already decided to file a petition, they will say I did not cooperate, that I refused to produce my child for inspection and examination and that I did not want to “talk.†The police may back them up. I do not know. They do not have grounds, that is for sure, but I do not know how long they can keep him and what they can ask me to do, my guess is counseling, that is a problem I must have relay for the counseling, but I should have a counselor assigned to me before Tuesday, if I work on it all day Monday, at least the name of the agency that will provide the services to me.
This is right up your alley, can you help me publicize it, please?
888.372.4702
323.424.3307
aovitsky@ca.rr.com
Comment by a.j. ovitsky — July 11, 2008 @ 10:14 pm
apropos max, was placed in foster care in kern county, 200 miles away, and i had specifically stated i MOVED TO LA to be near family and gave cps the name and number of the nearest cousin, they did not call, as far as i know he did not call me, he would have.
Comment by a.j. ovitsky — July 11, 2008 @ 10:20 pm
Well here CPS goes again, I told them something happened again this week, with my sonm I told dorthy torres that Little Aaron was hidding something, she told me if I find out what happened, to call the hot line.
that they would call her. my son told me that his babby sitter, had choked him, so I did what CPS( Dorothy Torres) told me to. they did nothing about , that they made a report, and it would be filed. who are they there for?? why are we paying them,Just to cover things up???: they do not pretect kids they put them in harms way.
Comment by AaronShinabery — July 12, 2008 @ 8:54 am
I am new to the juvenile dependency system. For the last six months, my 15 year old son has become suicidal and homicidal toward me and his stepfather. we are now temporarily separated for my husband’s safety. My son has had 3 psychiatric hospitalizations in the last six months. After the third hospitalization and by the advice of the psychiatrists I refused to pick up my son from the hospital because I still feared for my life and I needed time to secure additional services for my son. Because of this, I am being charged with felony abandonment/neglect. I have been through 3 hearings already, and although CPS has moved to dismiss their petition, my problem is with my son’s attorney - she has contested the motion to dismiss and wants to go to trial. I don’t understand this system at all. She is trying to fight to have the charges stick. Fortunately I have fully documented everything that has happened in the last six months of hell that my family has been put through. My son needs residential treatment and I have been able to secure services for my son on my own yet this attorney seems to think that he is better off allowing the court to take jurisdiction over my son and terminate my parental rights? What is wrong with this system that they give our children “control” to run the household. I am at my witts end with this drama. Does anyone have any advice for coping with this pathetic system? I cannot afford to hire my own attorney and the court refused to appoint an attorney to me. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks.
Comment by Jennifer — July 13, 2008 @ 10:27 pm
Where do you live? Which state? Wil lthey not appoint a court atty as you earn too much? Who called CPS? The doctors, your son?
You might try contacting an advocacy group for the mentally ill. That would be my first step. Join the membership board and post -there are others there who might be able to help.
Maggie
Comment by Maggie — July 14, 2008 @ 4:14 am
Hello, my name is melissa and I have been a victom of cps also. In march of this year my nightmare began. I picked my 8 years old up from school one afternoon and she informed me that someone from dfax had came to the school and asked her all kinds of questions. about an hour later they were knocking at my door. The worked insisted that we let her In because they had a report on us. she told us that a report was made and that it included report of drug use but would not tell us anything else. I was then told she would have to walk thru my house where she asked to look in every closet, Under the sinks in my bathroom, had to show we had running water and our tolets flushed. I was also asked where i kept my cleaning supplies and had to show where I kept my medication. We were then told that we had to go to the dfax office where we would have to concent to hair folical tests and If we did not then everyone in the household would be Positive for every drug automatically and our kids would be took. I was fearful of loosing my kids so I did what they told me to. I was not aware at the time of my rights. We went thru a 4 hour ordeal and they cut mt whole families hair including my two month old baby. I was devistated that my childs hair was cut and she had a big bald spot on the back of her hed. We were then allowed to return home with our kids until the results of the drug tests came back. One week later they showed back up to collect my kids. I was positive for marijuana. Yes I know I was wrong I made a mistake and It almost cost me my family. Drugs are not worth looseing your familt over and It is a seriour issue. Me and my husband were told If we did not place our kids In a safty resource that our kids would be taken. We asked If there was anything we could do to keep our kids from leaving our home, I even asked to leave but they said there was no other option. However my husband did not test positive for ant drug, He was clean all the way around. So we placed our kids with some family of mine, however they were In three different homes and our journey began. we had visitation twice a week for 1 hour . About a month later we had our team meeting where we established the goals In our caseplan and was told there system was down and that we would receive our caseplan In the next week not true. It took us 61 days to receive a caseplan and only then because we demanded that we have one and be took to court. I was going out of my mind my kids were somewhere else I had done everything asked and had already passed my drug screen 3 weeks into our case. But no matter what we done we just seem to get barried worst. I then found this website and began to do research of my own to get my kids back home. We asked again If I could leave and my kids be allowed to return home but my husband was told know because he had a criminal backgroung,Yea when he was young he was stupid that does not mean he cant care for his kids now. We demamded we be taken to court or that our kids be returned home. So we was told when a court date would be. We could not afford a lawyer so one was appointed to us. I researched and did my homework for him because i was afaid he would not fight for us. But he turned out to be the best court appointed lawyer i have ever seen, he did not like the coruption of cps either. We went to court where a protective order was put In place. Our kids would return home but I could not be unsupervised with them. They had to stay in daycare during the day while my husband was at work because they could not be alone with me. we went thru many different battles and there was many different things that cps did wrong In our case but Its ok for them to break the law I guess they do It everyday. We went back to court a month later and our kids were returned home permanately and our case was closed. This was In june 101 days after cps came into our lives we were rid of them. This Is only because we educated our selves about our rights and stood up to them and did not take no for a answer. we done what we were supose to and fought for our kids. I just want to say that there Is hope If cps Is In your life you can get rid of them you just have to fight do not give up thats what they want you to do. Since this started i have done everything I can to help other people In my same situation In my county. I hope that my story can help someone here like this website helped me. If I had not have found this website I may still be fighting the battle. Do not loose hope there is a light at the end of the tunnel. thanks to God above and this website my family Is together today.
Comment by melissa — July 14, 2008 @ 4:43 am
Maggie -
I live in California. I had to initiate a procedural abandonment per the hospital’s recommendation so that I could buy some time to secure additional services. Only nothing happened the way that they told me it would. I will try looking into the advocacy group for the mentally ill. thank you so much. God Bless.
Comment by Jennifer — July 14, 2008 @ 9:59 am
Hi,
My name is Carrie, and I live in Texas. I am a single mother who is in College as a nursing major. I started dating my next door neighbor after I had given birth to my daughter. After 4 months of dating he has broken my daughters left arm and 2 ribs, I called her doctor as soon as I had gotten home and saw the bruise on her arm but didn’t know it was him who had done this to her and I did not know about her ribs at that time. CPS of Erath county took her away from me and her grandparents, who are still “suspects” because they got to see her EVERY weekend since she was born. It has now been almost 1 month since this has all happend and I still do not have my 5 month old baby girl back. Cooks Childrens Hospital would not give me a copy of her X-Ray’s and said that there was “old injuries”. We got a lawyer the day after this happend. They would not even let us tell her bye that night at the hospital. She is 5 months old and This is one of the most cruical times for a mother to bond with her baby. The CPS has been telling numerous stories to different family members of mine about exactly how much pain, how many injuries, and so forth about Brooklynn (my daughter). I take my polygraph test this coming Friday, July 18th. and I need some advice on how to go about suing the CPS and getting jobs terminated from the Erath county office, and for Cooks for fabricating x-rays. (which has been done to MANY cases not just mine). my email is Wallscj_05@hotmail.com if anyone has any suggestions or help for me. We are also about to release to the news media around the nation to get this stopped so no other innocent mother or grandparent has to suffer the way we are. This is has been the worst month of my life. I miss my little girl so much and the CPS are just plain JERKS!!! a term much too nice to describe the crooks. I think that we need to have a pettition setup to be able to restruction this branch of the Goverment personally.
Comment by Carrie — July 14, 2008 @ 5:03 pm
I would like to thank the person who wrote that powerful, inspriational,encouragement scpritures and prayer. I was just about to give up and give in. Until i came across your comment. I been involved with CPS since1995. Now i have false allegations that led to arrest and child neglect; However my kids are in the home with me. Abuse was the allegations that were brought on me, but it was not founded so they use child neglect instead. Im wasnt aware of rights and llaws concerning CPS but since i found this website It seems that this agency have bruise its power and unjustice ways in some circumstances and situations. Especially towards the minority and the uneducating and poverty communities. But like it was said out there,Venges belong to God Almighty i do not wish bad on anyone and Im sorry to everyone who has become victims to these discrimating and evildoers of this agency. But contiue to fight the good fight of faith.And remember to be wise, seek knowledge, and understanding. Lets pray and stand together for what right and justice and peace. Blessing to all of u and YOU ARE NOT VICTIMS BUT VICTORS IN THE NAME OF JESUS CHRIST.
Comment by mary young — July 14, 2008 @ 11:12 pm
Diando,
I know all about Judge Susan Dolbrich. She is very corrupt!!! I had my parental rights terminated back in March 2008 because of falsified information supplied by her wonderful workers at CPS. I am glad that you are fighting for the other mother. Our stories are pretty similiar and we are trying to start a support group for others in Cass County. I hope you wipe the smirk right of that witch of a judge’s face. I was never ever charged with doing anything to my oldest two children, but she decided to keep them anyway. My CPS caseworkers names were Elizabeth Pant, Kathy Yoder, and of course a round of applause for the worst caseworker EVER KRISTA MATTHEWS!!! She works for Luthern Social Services in Kalamazoo, Michigan. She was contracted through Cass County DHS. She never tried to get me and my children back together. Yes I yelled at my mentally handicapped son and said some pretty horrible things, but this child does know right from wrong and likes to lie to his teachers when he is in trouble to take the heat off of himself. I was taped yelling at him by my abusive ex boyfriend, because he thought it would keep him from going to jail for beating me!!! I plead guilty to mental abuse took classes, got a better job, wen to counseling all the usual B.S. I didn’t know that it is illegal in the wonderful state of Michigan to have male roommates with absolutely no CRIMINAL BACKGROUND!!!! If I would have known that there was such a law then maybe my caseworker could have done her job and found me a place to live, which by the way if you go to their website tells you they offer this. Do you think my casewroker helped me with anything? Hell no she just made things harder and harder for me. I would complete a caseplan, they would right up a new one. I did this for almost two years. However just for the record I am NOT DONE FIGHTING!!! I will file my appeal and if I have to go even higher. These people are ridiculous and must be stopped!!! GOOD LUCK to you and the other mommy all we want is justice and a chance to raise our children the way GOD intended and the last time I checked susan Dolbrich was not GOD!!!
Comment by Kandice Cantrell — July 16, 2008 @ 8:12 am
my nightmare begun 5 months ago. cps came to our home and told ys that there was child abuse going on, because our son had a bruise on his lower leg. he is nine years old, he likes to climb tree’s, fences , play sports with his other siblings, ect. they said , they had to remove our children from our home, so they went to my husbands mother’s house and that’s where they have been the last five months. cps said we had to do parenting classes, which we did and finished over 2months ago. we had to do one on one classes, and alcohol classes, they said when we were half way done our kids could come home. my husband has 2 left than he will be done, i have 2 left to be half way done. would have been done with him but they did not have funding for me at the time. next week they said are kids could come home cause my husband will be finished, and i will be half way done. i hope they are not lying to us again, it’s been excuse after excuse with these people. all i want is my family back togather, but it never happens like they say it will. they took all 7 of my children out of our home, last month they let my oldest daugther come home, they said she was 16 and could take care of herself? but my other children haven,t been returned yet. please if anyone can give me some advice, i’m listening. please. and thanks for letting me post my toubles.
Comment by leona — July 16, 2008 @ 8:27 am
me and my husband have not been charged with anything, and we haven’t been through any courts. but i’m afraid we might get railroaded, just from hearing other people’s story’s, i’m scared of losing my children.and to all other family’s that have dealt with, or are still dealing with cps. you are in our prayers.
Comment by leona — July 16, 2008 @ 8:41 am
On Saturday, June 28, 2008, around 10pm, my husband and I had just woken up after a long nap. We had had a busy day with our 4 week old beautiful twins (Naomi, girl and Amari, boy – born May 21st) and my mother at the Taste of Tacoma. We decided, after feeding the twins, that we wanted to go out and get something fast to eat. My husband went to change Amari and while doing so heard a “small pop†while lifting the babies legs to assist with a bowel movement. Because Amari did not cry or react [at all] my husband continued with the change and picked him up from the bed. When he picked Amari up he noticed that the baby’s left leg was lifeless and not moving below the knee. We decided to take Amari to Children’s Hospital Seattle. We chose this hospital because we thought it the best for children (no matter the issue) and my husband trusted the opinion of the doctors there, primarily due to the fact that he works for Children’s Hospital.
Amari was admitted into ER and given a brief physical/vital exam (as is the procedure of ER), the whole while not crying. Our baby boy was then given an x-ray where they found that his left femur bone had broken into two pieces. Due to the seriousness of the injury they then admitted both Amari and Naomi into ER and ran full body x-rays and CT scans on both of the children. They then found that both twins have metaphyseal fractures above and below both knees, and Naomi has a metaphyseal fracture of her right elbow, a “healing fracture†of her seventh right rib and [what they then called] blood on the brain – later to be renamed ‘fluid below the skull’. They then contacted CPS and the Kent Police Department and reported “child abuseâ€.
My husband and I have children from previous relationships, none of which have suffered from any abuse. I have practiced massage therapist since 1999, but am currently unemployed and staying home with the children. My husband has been working for Children’s Hospital for the past 6 months as a surgical technologist, but has been in the field for the past 4 years. In July 2007 we lost a child – I was 9 months pregnant and one day his heart just stopped beating [in my womb]. We were given no answers to the cause of this travesty and have still received no word as to what may have caused our unborn baby’s death. We tried to get pregnant immediately after and in December 2007 were informed that I was pregnant with fraternal twins. We felt as though our prayers had been answered. We later found out that we would be having a boy and a girl, and the joy was overwhelming. My husband and I decided that we would no longer try for babies due to the fact that we now have our beautiful BOY AND GIRL, so after the twins were born I went through a tubal ligation. Neither of us have any prior reports against us regarding neglect nor abuse; our family support system includes community activist, social workers, teachers, doctors, foster parents, daycare owners and church ministers – WE WOULD NEVER INTENTIONALLY HURT NEITHER ONE OF OUR CHILDREN!
Both Naomi and Amari were admitted into the Hospital. We were then accused of child abuse and placed in a large room with a 24 hour security guard, we were not allowed to close the shades for privacy, WE WERE ALLOWED TO STAY IN THE ROOM WITH THE CHILDREN THE ENTIRE TIME (which we later were informed that “parents are usually not allowed to stay with the children under these circumstancesâ€); we were bombarded by a plethora of resident doctors, interns and specialist on a daily bases; and we received several different stories, regarding the health and placement of our babies, from each person we were interviewed by (to include hospital case workers, CPS workers, doctors and detectives). Against my mother’s advice, both my husband and I agreed to speak with Detective Stephen Kelly (Kent Police Department) without legal council because we felt [and still feel] that we had/have nothing to hide. On Monday, June 30, 2008, we were informed by Dr. Samuel Zinner that all persons involved would be having a team meeting and they would probably be ruling the injuries “nonaccidentalâ€. Because my husband [while still attending work every night] was informed that “Children’s Hospital is always getting sued for cases like this†– we decided to obtain a lawyer so not to have our children stripped from us and to make sure that we were informed of our rights as parents. We were able to see pictures of all the tests ran and were informed that bone degenerative diseases were highly unlikely due to observation and blood tests. Though we thank GOD that nothing is wrong with our babies genetically, we still have no answers as to how this could have happened. The entire time we were at the hospital we continuously asked doctors what other contributing factors could have caused fractures and blood on the brain, and we were ALWAYS told “nothing other than physical abuseâ€. The following day we decided to do a little research of our own and found out that the “blood on the brain†is actually a hemorrhage of the ventricles in the brain and is common in 26% of all babies born. But because CT scans are not done on ALL babies doctors are trained to rule these findings physical abuse. (Both Naomi and Amari were also tested for shaken baby syndrome and the tests were negative.) I am now finding out [via our lawyers] that metaphyseal fractures (and other fractures), are POSSIBLE and maybe caused during birth. I have since contacted my children’s pediatrician and the doctor who delivered the twins and they have also both agreed with the above findings. Though my cesarean section was considered “an uncomplicated procedure†the OB did inform me that Naomi was breach and pulled out from her ankles up to her shoulders and Amari was laying transverse and was turned before delivery. The doctors with Children’s Hospital have admitted that the date and time of the fractures are unknown and looked to be in the healing stages at the time of the x-rays. On Wednesday, July 2, 2008, both Naomi and Amari Schell were discharged from Children’s Hospital and taken to PICC (Pediatric Interim Care Center), were we [my husband and I] are allowed Monday – Thursday supervised visitation only for one hour a day per parent and phone calls to check up on them only during the business hours of our case worker (mind you, visitation has been modified due to the “allegations against us†set into play by Children’s Hospital). My 7 year old son, who lives in the home with us, was allowed to remain in our custody after being reviewed by the CPS case worker, Pamela Hill, and doctors and case workers at Children’s Hospital.
Though the case worker at PICC first stated that she is a neutral party and is only observing our interactions, she has proven otherwise. The observation reports from PICC, provided to me via CPS, are clearly set to make a case against the parent in favor of CPS. All observation is twisted and made to look like the parents’ interaction with the baby is negative, disruptive to the child and uncooperative. Not once does the report mention daily appointments made and kept by parent, parents are very observant (checking daily schedules of baby with every visit), complete cooperation with staff and case worker, playing with and talking to babies, stroking, cuddling, kissing, hugging etc. Not to mention that all interviews that shine a positive light on this terrible situation are not included in the allegation report provided to the courts from CPS. We want our children back, and we have been doing everything in our power to get them back in our care. We recently had to hire a family law attorney, which is costing us money we DO NOT HAVE. We have had to ask family members for money after spending our savings (initially meant to purchase a bigger vehicle) on our first attorney. After being informed that the courts now want to petition for Justice, my 7 year old son, we now have a criminal law attorney, a family law attorney and a child activist lawyer.
On Tuesday, July 15, 2008 at 8 am (at Kent Regional Justice Center – located in downtown Kent on the corner of 4th Ave and James St), our family will be fighting to get our babies back home and maintain custody of our 7 year old son. I am writing this in an attempt to call out the actual wrong doers in this civil case… Children’s Hospital and CPS. They are trying to remove our un-abused babies from an un-abusive home and we need as much attention to this situation as possible. I have found, via my own research, that several of the doctors involved, CPS and Children’s Hospital have been sued previously by other families for falsely accusing them of abuse and removing their children from perfectly healthy homes. This has got to stop! On many different occasions babies were taken from their parents for months at a time. No one has been able to stop them with lawsuits due to the judges throwing out the cases, in an attempt to protect reporters of abuse. But who is going to protect the innocent parents, the happy babies – the supportive families that are unable to get the time back that is stolen without any remorse or apologies? Please help us bring attention to this terrible epidemic that is plaguing the innocent families of Children’s Hospital.
With great sincerity,
Mrs. Carita S. Schell and family
Comment by Carita & Dion Schell — July 17, 2008 @ 5:34 am
Dear Mrs. Schell,
I have recently come across a blog written by a young couple who also went through the CPS nightmare in Chicago. I believe that their child also suffered injury at birth that was not detected until he was a few months old.
Here is the blog address:
http://lagliv.blogspot.com/
This family’s story is detailed in the blog under “The Nightmare”
The information might help you in some way. I sincerely hope it does.
Godspeed to you.
Comment by MaggieC — July 17, 2008 @ 6:26 am
Carita:
Do not know this group, nor can I vouch for their expertise, but Google
Washingtonfamiliesunited.
Best to you and your family.
You sound as if you are doing all the right things.
F.
Comment by Fern — July 17, 2008 @ 6:29 am
Sorry I’ve been away. I can’t access this website from my phone. Please email me at lindbloom_jm@yahoo.com. There are a lot of you that I would like to get to know better, as well as help eachother. Email is free. Economically, there isn’t much else that is free. Before you know it, we will be paying for the air in our lungs.
Comment by JoLisa Lindbloom — July 18, 2008 @ 1:16 pm
Popped in to say hiya. I Blog about the same issues here in the UK and Europe. I was illegally adopted thanks to the failings of social services. It took me 22 years to plough through the lies and incompetence’s to eventually find my real family. Nothing has changed, children are still treated as commodities in a growth industry. While Child protection agencies are busy protecting their interests in supply and demand and destroying families, children are dying and they neglect to care.
Childhood is the real thing its not a dress rehearsal. Something has to change.
Good luck in all you do x
Comment by tina — July 20, 2008 @ 2:40 pm
This is a letter that i sent to Govenor Brad Henry about my case in trying to get my daughter back…….
May 13, 2006
Dear Mr. Brad Henry,
My name is Kelly Bode, on October 7, 2005 my daughter Angela confided in some people (Ricky and Lavona Seward) that she was working for taking care of their 17 year old daughter and cleaning their house, that she was being sexually molested and raped by her step father (Steward Bode). 3 days went by before I was notified of this matter. And when I was I was trying to handle this in a way that seemed fit for her and my boys. I didn’t want my youngest son William to see his father be arrested and I asked if the Sewards would let me handle this matter that I would do what was right and report it to the authorities. My daughter had asked me to let her stay a few days with the Sewards and I agreed to let her until I got this matter under control. I left their house and went and got my ex-husband and took him to the police department and turned him in to the police for molesting my daughter. Well my daughter was then at that time taken into custody by the sheriffs department. And I was told that I could not go get my daughter or nor could I have any type of contact with my daughter until the OK DHS was notified.
I wanted to send you a letter outlining the serious concerns I have in relation to my daughter’s welfare and her current living arrangements. I want to state most emphatically that this letter is being written out of sincere concern for my daughter’s well-being and not from a place of malicious retribution! My greatest desire is to see my daughter placed home where she will be safe and will receive the best care possible. Initially, when this entire tragedy came about (the day I was informed of my daughter’s abuse), I was at a complete loss as to what to do or how to proceed in the best way for everyone that was involved. Having never been faced with such an overwhelming and traumatic situation, I asked the Seward’s if they would give my daughter safe refuge while I dealt with Steward and the accusations that Angela had made against him. Though I was in shock, I thought leaving Angela with the Sewards was the best immediate solution, and I felt she should stay in the care of family or friends rather than be exposed to anymore harm. It was not my intention at that point, however, that she should stay with the Sewards permanently. At the time, I felt the Sewards were my friends, my daughter’s friends, and I felt they had her best interest at heart as well as the rest of our family. Angela asked if she could stay with the Sewards instead of with the family members that I had chosen for her to stay with, and I allowed her to chose her own environment because I felt she was safe with Rick and Lavona, and I wanted to do what made Angela feel the best.
Weeks past and I actively pursued the responsibilities that DHS required of me in order for Angela to come back home to me. I did EVERYTHING that DHS asked me to do without fail, and I continue to fulfill my obligations as required by DHS and the court!!! Bringing my daughter home is the most important task I’ll ever accomplish. My heart is broken for the horrid things that she’s suffered, and I desperately want to make it up to her and hold her and tell her how sorry I am. It was during the beginning of the court process to bring Angela home that I began receiving information with regard to my daughter’s welfare in the Seward’s care. I want to make it very, very clear that I had no influence in the allegations that were launched against Mr. Seward! The Sewards had been friends of my family for many years, and I had no reason to believe that Rick or Lavona would harm Angela in any way. There were allegations that were brought against Mr. Seward imparted to me by my daughter’s personal friends, Taurie Clemens (via her mother, Tawnie Solpietro) & Cierra Bullock (via her mother, Jane). When these accusations were related to me, I was told by the girl’s mothers that Cierra and Taurie had learned of these happenings directly from Angela. The girls felt they should tell an adult the secrets Angela had shared with them. Angela told her friends that she was being forced to watch pornography with Rick, and she was performing sexual acts with him. The girl’s mothers told me they had reported these accusations to DHS/Child Welfare, the Perry Police Dept. and the National Child Abuse Hotline. My daughter’s friends also shared these allegations with my attorney via their mothers. I was outraged! I immediately informed DHS of what I had been told. I also began to investigate as thoroughly as I could the legitimacy of the allegations made against Rick. When I asked those who I felt were responsible to investigate these allegations (DHS & the police) what was being done to safe guard my daughter, I was told that DHS had “asked” the Sewards if the allegations against them were true. The Sewards denied the allegations. As a result of the Seward’s denial, DHS dropped the matter and closed the investigation! If that’s all it takes to ensure the welfare of my child-to “ask” the accused perpetrator if he/she is guilty and upon the accused perpetrator’s denial simply drop the matter and consider it no longer of any consequence, I’m not sure why I personally have been required to attend court hearing after hearing after hearing to ensure that my daughter will receive proper care when she is returned to MY custody. I am struggling with what seems to be an enormous double standard. I want to know beyond any shadow of a doubt that my daughter is once and for all- SAFE! I feel like this purpose would best be served by placing my daughter back home. I do not feel as though the young ladies who came forward with Angela’s “secrets” had anything to gain by lying about such matters, therefore, after my own investigation, I sincerely believe these girls were telling me the truth. I have questions concerning the appropriateness of Angela’s current placement and have witnessed first-hand what seems to be inappropriate behavior between my daughter and her caretakers. I have presented my concerns to DHS and begged for changes and my requests have been met with what seems to be complete indifference, not only for my concerns but also for what is in my daughter’s best interest. I don’t understand this indifference and find it very frustrating.
I love all my children, and though my daughter has suffered the most, my boys and I have had our worlds turned upside down as well. We are all victims of my ex-husband’s secret and haneous acts. I want desperately for my family to be whole again. My sons miss their sister and my heart aches every day for my daughter to come home to us. I sincerely believe that professional counseling as a family would be most beneficial, and I’m eager for us to once again communicate in a positive manner! Angela’s brothers and I are willing to do whatever it takes to help her to deal with the injustice of her situation, the horrors she’s suffered through and to overcome the nightmares and heartaches. We will stick by her no matter what happens! Whenever I approach these issues, once again, I seem to be met with indifference from DHS. As of late, the few visitations I’ve been allowed with my daughter have become more and more violent and marred by overwhelming animosity from Angela who screams accusations at me that she’s been told by her caretakers and the professionals involved with her status (lawyer & DHS) that I’ve lied to her and purposely allowed harm to come to her. I would NEVER allow harm to come to my daughter knowingly! She states with anger that she’ll fight coming back to my home harder than she’s ever fought anything in her life! Though I know my daughter will feel anger and many other passionate feelings, I cannot get through to her how much she means to me and her brothers and how sorry we are or how much she is loved and missed by her family. She refuses to believe us. I feel the only way to achieve positive communication between us at this point is through independent professional counseling as it seems she is being influenced to believe otherwise. I would like the matter of family counseling to be brought up and satisfied by the court. I want very much for Angela to come home and to know that she’ll never be hurt again. I want her to be able to have new and favorable memories of her home-the home that I want to provide her with where she can be completely safe. Whatever that entails, I am willing (as well as her brothers) to do it for her sake and for ours as a family!
I have tried desperately to reach out to my daughter, and each time I do, I’m told that I am not allowed to speak to her, to call her, or to exercise my visitation with her, etc. I am at a loss at these decisions when it has been my impression that we are suppose to be working towards Angela coming home. How can we once again be a family, develop positive communication and feelings, share as mother and daughter or sister with brothers, and begin to heal together when my sons and I are being purposely demonized and kept from being in contact with her. It is no surprise to me that Angela feels as though she’s been abandoned by us when my every attempt to communicate with her is denied, and I am told that by communicating with my daughter, it will serve to harm her. I have repeatedly requested more visitation with my daughter, and these requests have been denied. I have even requested that Angela be allowed to attend church with her brothers and myself as a family, and this request was denied as well under the excuse that it would be harmful to my daughter’s well-being. Can you provide me with an explanation of these decisions and the wisdom behind them? They do not seem to make sense to me as a mother. I have also attempted to speak with Angela when we run in to each other randomly out in public, and she refuses to talk with me stating that her attorney has advised her that it is not in her best interest to have interaction with me or her brothers. Is her attorney not appointed by the state with the purpose of representing the desires of the Department of Human Services? Isn’t it the decision of the court and the purpose of DHS to re-integrate our family and place Angela back into my home? If this is the case, why then should my daughter’s attorney advise her to run in the opposite direction and hide from me and her siblings when she comes into contact with us in public? Once again, I am confused. I’m not only confused but deeply hurt by such matters. How can such advise be constructive?
I desperately want my daughter to know how much I miss her, how much I love her and how badly we all want her back home. I’m not sure how I can communicate this to her and accomplish this task as I’ve been struggling with every ounce of my being since this horrible situation began. At every turn, I experience either complete indifference or interference of a negative nature, obstructionism and what seems to be an all-out war to keep my family apart and to subject us all to more excruciating pain. I appreciate the role that DHS is suppose to fulfill in keeping my daughter safe. However, I feel frustrated and confused that they are failing and seemingly unwilling to take the necessary steps to provide my daughter with safe-keeping and our family unit with appropriate and positive efforts toward a successful, constructive and rewarding reunification. It seems that DHS’s role has been to aggravate an already unbelievably cruel situation. I do not understand why DHS and Angela’s caretakers insist on presenting me to my daughter as her enemy in whom she cannot trust. How will DHS or my daughter benefit by keeping this family torn apart? Hasn’t this entire family already been subjected to the most devastating horrors that can happen in a life? Why should more pain be inflicted and endured? I am completely at a loss and growing more frustrated by the day wondering how all these issues will be overcome if I am fighting an uphill battle alone without representation, support or positive enactment for my daughter and for my family. Since I got my daughter and GRANDAUGHTER home 2 years after she was taken from me I recently found out that the foster parent is the father of my grandbaby and she has been having sex with him since she was 14 years old…… WHAT A GREAT SYSTEM WE HAVE HERE…….
Sincerely,
Kelly Bode
Comment by Kelly — July 20, 2008 @ 6:22 pm
From: MARTHA HYDE
Subject: -FILM DIRECTOR WANTS CPS VICTIMS TO MEET WITH HIM!
Date: Monday, July 21, 2008, 12:25 PM
PLEASE SPREAD THIS FAR AND WIDE-
Below is an email that I received from this film director asking for folks in New Jersey and area to meet with him in order to expose Child Protective Services Corruption by documentary!
I urge you all to go to this meeting!
Also, please distribute this invite far and wide!
Thanks,
Martha Hyde
Hello All,
I am thinking of having the meeting on Wednesday Night, July 23, 2008 . I am suggesting we meet at the Peter Pank Diner on Route 9 in South Amboy. Sometime around 7:00PM . This way people will have a chance to get home from work, or drive directly from work.
This location is convenient for all. It is located off the GSP, Near the Turnpike, Near 287, etc.
If you are going to attend, be prepared to buy a meal. They are not going to let us hang out there for a few hours free of charge.
If you know of someone that would be interested in this meeting, by all means, bring them.
I was also told about an event going on in W.D.C. on August 14th. If the person that told me about that event would get back in touch with me, I would really appreciate it.
I look forward to meeting you and getting one step closer to making this documentary a reality.
Michael
Comment by martha hyde — July 21, 2008 @ 9:46 am
“Carmine Michael”
Comment by martha hyde — July 21, 2008 @ 10:55 am
Film director -Michael—
You should know that a documentary in NJ only side steps the issue on the whole.
Please consider cases from all over the country. E-mail is a wonderful tool. Bring out this documentary on a GRAND SCALE! The likes of which CPS.DHS has never seen.
Syndication sound pretty???
Comment by Cheryl — July 22, 2008 @ 10:13 am
Hey Martha,
I would like to know more about this guy Michael.
I am in the process of writing a book about this to expose CPS.
My story is much different than most of yours, see the comments on the “Florida mother Sentenced” for my story.
But my goal is to expose CPS. I live in Indiana.
I am curious of what his goals are.
Thanks
Comment by Rob — July 22, 2008 @ 3:01 pm
I received an email from Linda here at the website. She stated that her youngest is now 18 years old and none of them want to have kids because of CPS. Now she plans to be an activist against CPS and is free to do so, without any possibility of retaliation by CPS that would harm her kids. Oh happy day!!!!!!!!
On another note, I’ve been encouraging everyone with kids and grandkids to visit this site and read over the comments posted here in the monthly guestbook. Some of them have all ready had encounters with these a$$holes and still, NONE OF THEM HAVE GOTTEN AROUND TO VISITING OR POSTING HERE YET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I CAN’T UNDERSTAND WHY THEY WOULDN’T MAKE TIME FOR SOMETHING SO IMPORTANT.
Comment by JoLisa Lindbloom — July 22, 2008 @ 5:57 pm
Please also visit the AFRA site and write your senators and congress critters, telling them NO on those ammendments listed that are coming up. Yes, some of them do sound good (on the surface) but READ THEM carefully! The government wants to INTRUDE into the lives of children from birth & monitor them thru preschool. Then the public school predators strike, and more bad from then on!
Comment by Susan — July 23, 2008 @ 5:31 am
My name is Terri and live in Desmoines I call it Iowa dirty little secrets and the crooked people i want to do a yube tube and expose DHS and Judges for what they done to me as well as my exinlaws and county attorney and attorney general and casa and guaredian of litem and my exinlaws who is friensds with a theripists I want to tell it all on a yube tube and show my children pictures everybody should do the say remember what they say what goes around comes around DHS takes you all kids away you all should expose their names on a yube tube to bad we all couln’t get together and make a one big yube tube and mail it to thepeople in Washington DC
Comment by Terri Rote — July 24, 2008 @ 2:42 pm
The FCC controls what the news media can show on television and what is allowed on the radio.
They can’t do anything about what we say and do on the internet.
We can watch television on the computer. We don’t have to turn on the television.
But what pisses me off is that the news media on the television stations glamorize CPS, brain-washing everyone who watches it. They leave out a lot of facts on the news. The authorities tell the reporters what they want to be plastered on every TV screan in America and abroad.
CPS has a commercial on the Christian station that I listen to that says this:
WHEN YOU SEE THEM BEING UNLOADED FROM THE BUS CLUTCHING A PAPER BAG TO THEIR CHEST, IT MAKES YOUR HEART BREAK. THEY ARE JUST BEING TRANSPORTED TO ANOTHER FOSTER HOME. YOU KNOW THAT ALL OF THEIR WORLDLY POSSESSIONS ARE IN THAT BAG, AND YOU CAN SEE THE SADDNESS IN THEIR FACES. WE NEED MORE FINANCIAL SUPPORT TO KEEP THESE KIDS SAFE FROM THE PARENTS WHO ABUSE THESE UNWANTED CHILDREN. SOCIAL WORKERS ARE THESE CHILDREN’S LIFELINE AND THE ONLY CONSISTANCY IN THEIR LIVES. HELP US HELP THESE CHILDREN. IF YOU CAN’T DONATE MONEY, CLOTHING AND TOYS, BE A FOSTER PARENT. BECAUSE WE KNOW THAT NOT EVERYBODY CAN BE A FOSTER PARENT, BUT EVERYONE CAN HELP A FOSTER CHILD.
IT MAKES ME VIOLENTLY SICK EVERY TIME I HEAR THAT COMMERCIAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WHEN ARE WE GOING TO COME FORTH AND MAKE THEM STOP?
WHEN ARE WE, THE CITIZENS OF THIS COUNTRY, GOING TO TAKE OUR RIGHTS BACK AND LET THE WORLD KNOW JUST HOW DUMB THE GOVERNMENT THINKS WE ARE?
WHEN ARE WE GOING TO STAND UNITED AND SPEAK OUT, TELLING SOCIETY THE TRUTH ABOUT CPS AND THE DANGERS TO OUR CHILDREN?
WHEN ARE WE GOING TO START ADDING CPS TO THE TALKS WE HAVE WITH OUR CHILDREN, WARNING THEM OF THE DANGEROUS REALITY THAT CPS IS NO DIFFERENT THAN A CHILD PREDITOR?
I ADDED THIS TO MY CONVERSATIONS ABOUT STRANGERS, FIRE SAFETY, DRUGS, ECT…
Comment by JoLisa Lindbloom — July 24, 2008 @ 8:09 pm
FACT: Most child molesters don’t get arrested and convicted.
FACT: 20% of all registered sex offenders never commited the crime.
FACT: This is one of CPS’s favorite subjects. They can use it against you in many ways and the following is a list of ways and reasons they can ruin your lives and destroy your children.
1.) They can say that they, “suspect” that sexual abuse took place. THAT’S ALL THEY NEED TO GET A JUDGE TO GIVE THEM PERMISSION TO DESTROY YOUR FAMILY.
2.) They can then brainwash your kids that the sexual abuse actually happened. ALL THAT THEY NEED IS FOR THE KIDS TO TELL THE POLICE THE “FACTS” THAT THEY NOW BELIEVE TO BE TRUE AND BAM! NOW THEY CAN ARREST SOMEONE.
3.) At this point, they charge the appointed victim. It could be you. It could be a friend or family member. NOW THEY CAN SAY THAT YOU’RE AN UNFIT PARENT.
4.) Maybe they won’t even charge anyone with the “crime” but now the damage is done. HERE’S WHERE THEY CAN MOVE FOR THE TERMINATION OF YOUR PARENTAL RIGHTS, SAYING THAT IT’S IN THE BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILDREN.
5.) N
Comment by JoLisa Lindbloom — July 24, 2008 @ 8:31 pm
FACT: Most child molesters don’t get arrested and convicted.
FACT: 20% of all registered sex offenders never commited the crime.
FACT: This is one of CPS’s favorite subjects. They can use it against you in many ways and the following is a list of ways and reasons they can ruin your lives and destroy your children.
1.) They can say that they, “suspect” that sexual abuse took place. THAT’S ALL THEY NEED TO GET A JUDGE TO GIVE THEM PERMISSION TO DESTROY YOUR FAMILY.
2.) They can then brainwash your kids that the sexual abuse actually happened. ALL THAT THEY NEED IS FOR THE KIDS TO TELL THE POLICE THE “FACTS” THAT THEY NOW BELIEVE TO BE TRUE AND BAM! NOW THEY CAN ARREST SOMEONE.
3.) At this point, they charge the appointed victim. It could be you. It could be a friend or family member. NOW THEY CAN SAY THAT YOU’RE AN UNFIT PARENT.
4.) Maybe they won’t even charge anyone with the “crime” but now the damage is done. HERE’S WHERE THEY CAN MOVE FOR THE TERMINATION OF YOUR PARENTAL RIGHTS, SAYING THAT IT’S IN THE BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILDREN.
5.) Before they get terminate your rights, the kids that they can’t brainwash, get manipulated into telling lies to substanciate the allegations that make you look like a monster. It’s no different than what a petifile would say to convince the kids to keep quiet.
“YOUR PARENTS WON’T BELIEVE YOU.”
“YOUR PARENTS DON’T WANT YOU ANYMORE.”
“IF YOU TELL ANYONE, I’LL KILL YOUR PARENTS, FAMILY, PETS, ECT…”
“IF YOU MAKE A MISTAKE IN YOUR STORY, YOUR PARENTS WILL GO TO JAIL AND YOU WONT SEE THEM AGAIN.”
“JUST TELL THE JUDGE WHAT WE WANT YOU TO SAY AND WE WILL LET YOU GO HOME WITH THEM.”
Have I made my point? If we warn our kids about all of the lies and tricks that CPS can pull, they will be prepared, just like if they were facing a sexual preditor or a kidnapper.
If we can talk to our kids that nobody has the right to touch them anywhere that is covered by a bathing suit, then we can give them the survival tools they need to be safe from the biggest predator of all; CPS.
Comment by JoLisa Lindbloom — July 24, 2008 @ 8:49 pm
GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU AND YOURS! MAY YOU BE ABUNDANTLY SUPPLIED WITH SAFETY, PEACE AND HAPPINESS IN JESUS NAME.
AMEN
Comment by JoLisa Lindbloom — July 24, 2008 @ 8:53 pm
Thursday night I sent my daughter a letter, along with some pictures I had resently taken at Walmart earlier this month.
I guess you could say that I, “Dropped the bomb,” on my mother’s dirty little secrets.
Today I received the confirmation receipt that my daughter signed for and received her mail from me. She received it yesterday, according to the time stamp of delivery.
The question is, why hasn’t she contacted me? I was quite saddened that I didn’t receive a phone call or at least an email from her.
I’m praying that my mother didn’t turn her into a stuck up snob. I really do miss my daughter, and there are a lot of things that wouldn’t have happened to me and my children if my mother didn’t make all of those false reports to CPS in the first place.
I realize that she may hate me, be angry with me, want nothing to do with me, or may even be shocked with the truth and in denial. The last thing I want to do is hurt my daughter.
But sooner or later, the truth has to come out. Kerry, (my mother,) may have poisoned her mind and twisted big lies into little truths. The biggest influences come from those you spend the most time with.
At least I said what I needed to.
I TOLD THE TRUTH!
Now I have to sit and wait. She may never speak to me again or give me another thought, but at least she knows the truth. Even if the truth isn’t what she wanted to hear.
I don’t know if, “Operation Drop Bomb,” was a success or even a good idea. It will break my heart if I never see her again. But I told her the truth and now it’s up to her on what to do with it.
TODAY IS A SOMBER DAY FOR ME. PLEASE PRAY FOR ME.
lindbloom_jm@yahoo.com
Comment by JoLisa Lindbloom — July 26, 2008 @ 9:03 pm
Thursday night I sent my daughter a letter, along with some pictures I had resently taken at Walmart earlier this month.
I guess you could say that I, “Dropped the bomb,” on my mother’s dirty little secrets.
Today I received the confirmation receipt that my daughter signed for and received her mail from me. She received it yesterday, according to the time stamp of delivery.
The question is, why hasn’t she contacted me? I was quite saddened that I didn’t receive a phone call or at least an email from her.
I’m praying that my mother didn’t turn her into a stuck up snob. I really do miss my daughter, and there are a lot of things that wouldn’t have happened to me and my children if my mother didn’t make all of those false reports to CPS in the first place.
I realize that she may hate me, be angry with me, want nothing to do with me, or may even be shocked with the truth and in denial. The last thing I want to do is hurt my daughter.
But sooner or later, the truth has to come out. Kerry, (my mother,) may have poisoned her mind and twisted big lies into little truths. The biggest influences come from those you spend the most time with.
At least I said what I needed to.
I TOLD THE TRUTH!
Now I have to sit and wait. She may never speak to me again or give me another thought, but at least she knows the truth. Even if the truth isn’t what she wanted to hear.
I don’t know if, “Operation Drop Bomb,” was a success or even a good idea. It will break my heart if I never see her again. But I told her the truth and now it’s up to her on what to do with it.
TODAY IS A SOMBER DAY FOR ME. PLEASE PRAY FOR ME.
lindbloom_jm@yahoo.com
Comment by JoLisa Lindbloom — July 26, 2008 @ 9:03 pm
Thursday night I sent my daughter a letter, along with some pictures I had resently taken at Walmart earlier this month.
I guess you could say that I, “Dropped the bomb,” on my mother’s dirty little secrets.
Today I received the confirmation receipt that my daughter signed for and received her mail from me. She received it yesterday, according to the time stamp of delivery.
The question is, why hasn’t she contacted me? I was quite saddened that I didn’t receive a phone call or at least an email from her.
I’m praying that my mother didn’t turn her into a stuck up snob. I really do miss my daughter, and there are a lot of things that wouldn’t have happened to me and my children if my mother didn’t make all of those false reports to CPS in the first place.
I realize that she may hate me, be angry with me, want nothing to do with me, or may even be shocked with the truth and in denial. The last thing I want to do is hurt my daughter.
But sooner or later, the truth has to come out. Kerry, (my mother,) may have poisoned her mind and twisted big lies into little truths. The biggest influences come from those you spend the most time with.
At least I said what I needed to.
I TOLD THE TRUTH!
Now I have to sit and wait. She may never speak to me again or give me another thought, but at least she knows the truth. Even if the truth isn’t what she wanted to hear.
I don’t know if, “Operation Drop Bomb,” was a success or even a good idea. It will break my heart if I never see her again. But I told her the truth and now it’s up to her on what to do with it.
TODAY IS A SOMBER DAY FOR ME. PLEASE PRAY FOR ME.
lindbloom_jm@yahoo.com
Comment by JoLisa Lindbloom — July 26, 2008 @ 9:03 pm
Thursday night I sent my daughter a letter, along with some pictures I had resently taken at Walmart earlier this month.
I guess you could say that I, “Dropped the bomb,” on my mother’s dirty little secrets.
Today I received the confirmation receipt that my daughter signed for and received her mail from me. She received it yesterday, according to the time stamp of delivery.
The question is, why hasn’t she contacted me? I was quite saddened that I didn’t receive a phone call or at least an email from her.
I’m praying that my mother didn’t turn her into a stuck up snob. I really do miss my daughter, and there are a lot of things that wouldn’t have happened to me and my children if my mother didn’t make all of those false reports to CPS in the first place.
I realize that she may hate me, be angry with me, want nothing to do with me, or may even be shocked with the truth and in denial. The last thing I want to do is hurt my daughter.
But sooner or later, the truth has to come out. Kerry, (my mother,) may have poisoned her mind and twisted big lies into little truths. The biggest influences come from those you spend the most time with.
At least I said what I needed to.
I TOLD THE TRUTH!
Now I have to sit and wait. She may never speak to me again or give me another thought, but at least she knows the truth. Even if the truth isn’t what she wanted to hear.
I don’t know if, “Operation Drop Bomb,” was a success or even a good idea. It will break my heart if I never see her again. But I told her the truth and now it’s up to her on what to do with it.
TODAY IS A SOMBER DAY FOR ME. PLEASE PRAY FOR ME.
lindbloom_jm@yahoo.com
Comment by JoLisa Lindbloom — July 26, 2008 @ 9:03 pm
Judge when I was seventeen years old why did you allow CPS to snatch my younger sister from her elementary school (my mother argued with the school principle) He called CPS. Judge did you know that I had to take care of my six year old brother when this incident became worse and I became parentless. You did not even offer a slice of bread. Judge do you know that I grew up in the safest home in America. Judge do you know that I am a peaceful law abiding citizen and that I have seen the village do as they please. Many years later, I lost a niece and nephew to foster care (at birth) and then my niece subsequently to adoption. Judge you never allowed me to tell you about how you and the village have hurt members of my family or me. Do you care? Do you care? I do care. Why? Why do you allow the village to kidnap other people’s children???? Hopefully, people understand that if your baby is snatched at birth; this means there was no abuse or neglect as these are babies coming out of their mother’s stomach as healthy newborn babies. Why Judge do you think the village is entitled to abuse my right as an aunt to know my own members of my family? These children are grown or almost grown and do not think of me as family. This is not how they were raised. They see strangers as family (the village). “I’m sure you are a nice family” but hee hee haa haa I have a family and I don’t need you”. I was born and raised in poverty and never in life would I laugh at my parents for being poor and I certainly would not turn my back on my poor parents; but that is what I learned from growing up in poverty. I care about my parents is what I have to say. For the village to teach my niece and nephew to turn their back on their poverty stricken parents is repulsive!!!!
Comment by gingerroot — July 27, 2008 @ 9:37 pm
I am so sorry for your situation JoLisa. I’m kind of going thru the same sh*t now. My daughter is furious with me because of the feminazis poisoning her mind with their lies. Lucky them, they get to sit around all day thinking of ways to inflict their cruel c*nt-troll over me. They won’t let us have any unsupervised visits with any of our 3 kids and we only get to see them for 2 hrs a week. They are saying I told my little boy bad things about Judge Marshall, the feminazi lezbo judge who gets paid by dh$ to always rule AGAINST parents. All I said to my 5 yr. old is that she is very BAD. I can’t take any more of this torment & negativity, so I’m getting out of this sh*thole corrupt evil little prison town SOON.
Comment by Susan — July 28, 2008 @ 5:50 am
Hitlerly was right, it does take a village to raise a child, but the GOVERNMENT are its IDIOTS!
Comment by Susan — July 28, 2008 @ 5:52 am
Hello. Please take the moment to read me!! I am a 21 year old mother fighting for custody of my two precious little boys. It shouldn’t be right to steal a child from a secure loving caring home. I am fighting back and I REFUSE to take NO as an answers. I am getting my babies back home one way or another. I am not giving up or giving into them. It is my God-Given right. Please everyone far and near take the moment and check out my myspace. My story is located on the Right Hand side.
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any suggestions, thoughts, or words of hope or wisdom feel free to contact me at
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LETS UNITE AS ONE AND FIGHT THE SYSTEM! PUT AN END TO ALL THE MISERY. WHO’S WITH ME??
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Comment by Ashley West, OKC — July 29, 2008 @ 4:27 pm
My son (now 13) was put into temporary foster care on 7/10. He has been moved twice, in part b/c his kinship/community rights are being violated, he’s a Jewish kid from West LA who is now in a Latino East LA home, the first placement was even farther. The allegations include: physical abuse (he had a bad sunburn, they told the judge i scratched his face, five people have now told DCSF it was SUNBURN), mental illness (i am hearing impaired not mentally ill).
The appointed lawyer is not bad at all. Five days after they snatched him i had a psych exam and the psychologist wrote a letter to DCSF informing them that i am hearing impaired, not mentally ill and that i am not “off my meds” as they told the judge. They also told the judge he was not in school for 2 years. That was disproven a week later when the State Superintendent of Charter Schools confirmed that he is in fact enrolled in a legal program and has been for over a year. This will take time to sort out. We get 3 hours a week of supervised visits, and 15 minutes a day on the phone. DCSF wants me to go to counseling, but they cannot locate any counselor who will communicate with me in writing, and i do not speak often, and only to those people whose speech patterns i am familiar with.
A mental health nurse came to do a 5150, it was my 3rd 5150, i got her out of the house in 10 minutes. She was saying she thought i was “paranoid” because i asked her for her ID at the door. The psychologist who cleared me five days later was her superior from the same agency, Los Angeles Dept. of Mental Health. This all came about shortly after my son hit me with a broomstick, hard, on the arm and shoulder b/c he did not want to sweep up some chocolate powder he had spilled accidently. I yelled in pain, someone in the street heard and also saw someone hitting someone. My son and I are about the same height and his hair is shoulder length, mine is short. I had my back turned when he hit me and i screamed b/c i was startled. The judge already ordered reunification, and my attorney says the case will most like be dismissed. What does he like most about foster care? They have more money and toys than I’ve got. I have thought of suing DCSF after the case is over, for violation of kinship/community rights, including the right to worship as a Jew and go to religous school, the right to keep the Sabbath and have kosher food, the right to receive sealed mail (his was not delivered), the right to have “as much visitation as possible” which is what the judge said at the detention hearing. I am very lucky to have legal experience and a few loyal friends, i still need all the help i can get finding a job. i will answer any questions if people want to email me.
The DCSF attorney withheld evidence at the detention hearing regarding my health, eyewitnesses to the sunburn and his education and for this i reported her to the California State Bar, providing evidence of her lies to the judge. If the Bar agrees that she lied to a judge and withheld material evidence, the county counsel could end up being disbarred.
i was scared and am still a little, i know he will be back, we need to work on yelling and his hitting, i have not actually spanked him since he was 6 and i would like to read what other single moms do with strong teenage boys who hit, use foul language and generally disrespect them, but are basically good kids.
The key to survival here is to continue to communicate with the social worker politely and with as much friendliness as possible, ask for any services they have, show a willingness to work, and then their attitudes change. I take each day one day at a time, i am happy when i see my son and talk to him and i am hopeful he will be home in a few weeks.
The timing of this latest CPS incident coincided with my activity on this site, i was wondering about that, if there was any connection.
LAPD did call them, but only because they assumed that anyone who asks for a warrant must be nuts, they had no warrant and they will be dealt with when my case is over, they spent over an hour breaking attempting to break down my double front doors (locked steel security gate) until they realized the child was outside, not in any danger and that i was hearing impaired and had been on the computer the entire time on relay calls with the same police station trying to communicate. Had i not insisted on a warrant, my child would be here now. i still do not regret standing up for myself, and will continue to do so and will continue to report here. Namaste.
Comment by Abby Ovitsky — July 30, 2008 @ 12:02 am
I still have heard nothing. My husband said to give it a few days and I did. Tomorrow will be a week since I sent the package to my daughter.
I’m thinking about writing a letter to my mother, (Kerry,) telling her of all of my suffering, the damage she caused me and my children. I wonder if she even cares.
Please send me emails and prayers. I am still praying for all of you…
Comment by JoLisa Lindbloom — July 30, 2008 @ 12:29 pm
I forgot to leave my email address. I update my information on here every so often.
lindbloom_jm@yahoo.com
253-212-6978
PO Box 44162 Tacoma WA 98448-0162
I just moved to Olympia, Washington so my mailing address will be changing as soon as I find a place to live. Right now I am staying at a motel in downtown Olympia. They charge $152.82 a week! I had to take out a payday loan to cover my moving expences. It’s insane.
I’m so sick of the government ripping us off and dividing our families. I’m tired of all of the distruction by their hands.
WE WANT TO FIGHT BACK, BUT NONE OF US KNOW WHERE TO BEGIN BECAUSE IT’S SO BIG AND WIDE SPREAD. HOW DO WE STAND UP TO THEM? AND AT WHAT COST?
As I said, email me with your comments and prayers. I could really use some friends who know what I’m going through. I have to go to the library to check the comments on this website because the memory on my phone can’t handle the size of the information on here.
I can check my email on my phone and shop for things for my phone, but that’s about all it can handle. I hate going to the library to use the internet because I have to wait for a long time, as there are a ton of people who use it as well. Then I only get 15 minutes to an hour at a time. It’s just a big pain.
Anyway, I’m praying for the restoration of all of our families and healing too. Your prayers are much appreciated.
God bless every one of you. By the way, he answers the prayers of children first.
Comment by JoLisa Lindbloom — July 30, 2008 @ 12:45 pm
wow here they go again they put the person that started this whole mess back on the case,the one how told me I would never see my kids again. Nicole Hayes of the san mateo county cal CPS she should have been fired, she asked me if I molested my kids that nasty pig she should be ingail for what she did to my family, but yet they promoted her how the @##%&(&$ is the country comming too.
Comment by AaronShinabery — July 30, 2008 @ 9:53 am
Comment by AaronShinabery — July 30, 2008 @ 3:17 pm
I would like to say dcfs are trying to take my baby Cole in California
The office on Olympic the social worker sent me to jail for threatening her and got promoted her name is Adrian Bolten.Please be afraid of her.
Comment by simone — July 30, 2008 @ 4:21 pm
Some members in my family have been falsely accused. I have since started a website to help encourage and shed some light to those who have been falsely accused. Please visit the site and share your testimonies.
http://www.delicatetruths.net
Comment by DelicateTruths — July 30, 2008 @ 8:40 pm
MY FIRST VISIT
I TOOK THEM AND BOUGHT THEM THEIR WINTER CLOTHS, AND HAD AARON HAIR CUT.
I BOUGHT THEM BOTH NEW JACKETS.And two new pairs of shoes SCOTT WILL CONFIRM
THANKS GIVING VISIT
SENT KIDS TO SCHOOL WITH OUT JACKETS
AND THE KID COME IN DIRTY CLOTHES,
TONI WEARING AARON’S CLOTHES
ASKED THEM WENT THEY TOOK A BATH LAST THEY TOLD ME ABOUT A WEEK AGO.
They told me that Cindy an the new couple sleeps in the same bed every night.
We have photos of the kids
MY FIRST VISIT AFTER COURT
THE KIDS TOLD ME THAT CINDY HAS BEEN MAKING THEM CALL HER NEW BOY FRIEND DAD.
THEIR CLOTHES DIRTY AGAIN WITH A NO JACKET AND IT WAS RAINING, Aaron was stabbed in the back with a pencil from little Donnie.
Toni was stabbed in the back of the neck with a fork three time , and then sent to her room for the rest of the night.
by the one of the kids living with them.
they told me that their mother is sleeping with the couple she moved in with them.
and what ever they tell her to do she does.
Little Aaron told me if he didn’t do what big Donnie told him he could just leave, with out him, he and his mother would be on the street.
she didn’t have the kids do their home work over x mas holiday vacation I had to have them catch them up.
my second visit
I had to take Little Aaron for an emgency dent ice to get his tooth fixed ,do to his mother lack of care
He had 11 cavities and almost had to have a root cannel, I asked him when he bushes his teeth he told me he don’t remember,
he thinks the last day I was living with him.
also she sent the kids to school without jackets , and it was the first coldest day of the year.
Toni told me that the little girl ally was beating her up and when she would hit back she would be the only one in trouble.
I told her to protect her self .
she didn’t have them do their home work this again I had to catch them up again
my third visit
Big Donnie sent a message with my son told him to tell me, if I tell my kids to protect themselves again, he would come
over to my home and kick my ass, that night he showed in front of my home.
they sent the kid again to school in dirty clothes, and even after they knew I was taking them to the dent ice
the kids have not been brushing their teeth
also Toni teacher told me that Toni gets out of school at 2:30 and her mother has been making her sit out side till her brother get out of school
for 45 minutes. I told the teacher that I cant talk to Cindy that she would have to call he and tell her that Toni needs to be
picked up at 2:30
she didn’t have them do their home work this again I had to catch them up again
1/24/2008
Toni was sent to school in Little Aaron clothes, and was dirty again
and she had torn shoe’s , even after I bought them new shoe’s not more then three month ago
today the teacher was very upset with me telling me Cindy is still not picking up Toni on time
I told her my hand were tied I only have them two days a week , and they will be picked up on time
on my days and I am sorry for Cindy not picking up Toni on time.
she also made the commit that Cindy might want to wash her clothes sometime.
Aaron has only taken one bath since last week when he was here, this is what he told me
she made him take a bath because he would be with me and she didn’t want to look bad
Toni only took two baths since the last time she was here.Toni said the same thing
She took a bath because she was coming here.
and They have not been making them brush their teeth, three day ago was the last time they said they brushed their teeth.
she didn’t have them do their home work this again I had to catch them up again
I had sister buy her new shoes
25-Jan
the kid were running round like crazy people till I called thru law office.
Cindy told them to try or make me as upset as they could.
if I called Ernest to stop right away because it would look bad on her.
my kid now use cuss words that were not aloud in my house.
( Toni fuck you aaron) and aaron said ( Toni is being a bitch)
these are not the kids I left,they are picking up bad habits from the people they are living with.
Aaron is talking in his sleep( Donnie stop picking on me)
Toni said in her sleep ally stop hitting me
Cindy is not taken care of them.
1/30/08
today when were in court again Cindy sent Toni to school with out a coat again , so she gave the coat the lawyer filling in for Ernest.
she said Toni forgot to take it with her, it’s not Toni Job to remember it’s her mother or father job.
Cindy didn’t have Toni do any home work, I had to ketch her up again
this week Cindy chopped off Aaron hair, ever after Aaron asked them not to.
big Donnie said Aaron looks like a girl, and he has gum in it any way we could take care of that long hair.
Donnie should have nothing to say about my son, and what he wants something needs to be done about this man
He should be told to stop making decisions where my kids best interest is
Cindy scared that she don’t want to upset him she went along with cutting off Aaron hair.
Aaron has been trying to grow his hair to the way it was for over a year. He look at me and starting crying.
asking me please Daddy let me stay with you. I don’t want to go back there.
Toni told me she has not brushed her teeth sense last week when she was here.
after all the work on Aaron teeth he told me he brushed his teeth only 3 times.
Cindy know Aaron had 11 cavities she should be on top of this
this is a very cold winter , this is not summer you don’t cut a kids hair off and make them bold.
I bought them a video game system today, I think we could all play together and take turns.
in October Toni couldn’t even play ’s now she better then me ???
I limited them to one hour a day , Aaron told me this is all they do.
I asked him if he goes out side , he said no. I play on the x box most of the time.
this is not healthy for them, they should be out side with the other kids,
I made them go out side at least 1 hour a day , Aaron said he like’s playing game’s better.
Cindy told Aaron and Toni to act the way daddy showed them, when there are with me
or it would look bad on her, and I could take them away from her.
I told Aaron and Toni they should act the way I showed them all the time
Because It looks bad on both of us, I told them don’t be like those other kids.
no hitting no bad words , tell your mother when one of the other kids hurt them
so other parents can take care of the other kids.
he told me that nothing happens to them when there are bad
We get in trouble, and thing get things taken away from us.
these people should not have any say in my kids lives.
Toni called Aaron to fucker for not letting her play.
I told her that word is not aloud here.
something needs to happen about this!!!!
Aaron just told me that that they took his bed down and thru it away.
now he sleeps on the floor. But he is back in his room
not stuck in a the front room on a chair .
the other kids a aloud to stay up , and aaron would turn off the TV on them.
now he is on the floor sleeping.
he told me he has to clear a space,so he could have a place to sleep.
tonihome work was not done all week.
1/31/08
Little Aaron got up this morning , after breakfast he said I love coming here ,We get to eat before we go to school.
I said you don’t get breakfast?? He said no they just say eat breakfast at school, you don’t have time.
a parent makes time it the parent that wakes up the kids , they said the have the food but Cindy does not get them up in time to eat.
she wake them rushing out the house saying your going to miss the bus. She could miss an extra 45 minute sleep to make sure
the kids get off with the right start, food feed the brain, if they don’t eat they will not think as well. Is this good parenting I think not!
on the way taken them to school ,Aaron told me he was going to run away me home last week, he walked about three blocks,
and then turn back because him didn’t know how to get to my house. he told me he does not to go back that house and those kids.
2/6/08
the First thing out of Little Aaron month Was Big donnie made them sleep in the car,last Sunday night.
Cindy told them that she was going to kill her self and end this night mare,Toni was sent to school again with a jacket.
she Ws sent in a dress with nothing but under ware no legs uncovered it was about 38 dreges that and raining, and windy.
and their home work was not done again. aaron brushed his teeth today ago,
Dig Donnie told Little Aaron that he wants then to atsy with me and save him the trobble.
their home was not bone all week,
2/13/08
To day when I pick up my kids the first thing Aaron said was that his mother said, that she wish that he was with his father and at that he was not wanted,
at that house donnie and adona wish he was with me, things would be smoother for them.
the only thing she wanted , was Toni .things would be better with out him,
Toni had a scratch on her face , she told me that, alie, or aaron or the cat did it she don’t remember.
this is a horrible thing to say to your owe son.
also spoke with their teacher about the way the come to school, she has notice Toni and aaron coming to school dirtier then normal but were in a
poor area so its common that kids come to school dirty, I asked if she been been picked up on time
the teacher said Cindy has been better about it, I asked about Toni and her coming with a jacket, she told me she has extra in the class
and that Toni use’s it often, I told her Cindy was to send her with a jacket, and to please let me know if the is not happening.
she also said that there is some sign of neglete, but giving the area these thing happen.
as I was washing toni’s hair , I notice sign’s of hand fringer print bruses on her legs, she told me they can from the other kids in the house draging
her down the hall way , all three hitting her, she told her mother and she did nothing about it.
I have pitchers. They told me that they are beging sent to bed with out eating, when donnie, addonna said they were bad.
kids need food to grow, it helps them think, At this point if my kids are being treated this way , while going thru court.
how do their kids being treated, are they being feed, bathed, ?????? You take game’s away/ tv away / put them in the corner, but you always feed kids,
then snd them to bed early. Kids have to eat, to help them grow
also cindy keeped toni home work so I could not get her home work done per court order.
2/14/2008
this week thing seem to be a little better, because Cindy had two complaints at cps, said they were made to take a bath every day
and brush their teeth. Aaron seem a little more aggressive then before, and Toni has wet her self 3 time in to days.
they told me that they were moving very soon but he does not know how to get there but it a far dive.
they also told me that they all cleaned all last weekend because they didn’t want to look
bad in front of cps. Aaron told me they had gone to the store and finely they have food.
cps came to my home ,and asked me a ton of questions, and talked to the kids again.
the lady from cps told little aaron that her told her two different story’s the one when she went to his school.
and then the one in front of Cindy, I told little aaron to tell the truth, even it hurts daddy but tell the truth.
her told that his mother made him lie to the court, and what he told Stacy was not the truth.
his mother talked about the story over and over with him, so he would not fore get.
again cindy keep Toni’s home work this is noq the second time this has happened
2/27/2008
this week aaron said he only took a couple of baths, but had been brushing his teeth.
Toni was made to take a bath, because she was coming here , she was not made to brush her teeth.
Aaron told me Cindy was in the hospital, because she a vain in her leg burst, while she was taking apart her bed
getting ready to move. I asked him if they found a place he said he thinks so but not sure.
when I asked where it was he told me they were the car forever and very close to Marsha house.
this is the out side of Sacramento.
Aaron told me that Donnie , and Adonna have been punishing them .
these people have no right to punish my kids , they have no relation to them, Cindy should be the only
one that is punishing this is giving mixed messages to my kids.
again Cindy keeped Toni’s home work and again toni did not do her home this week.
I can not be held acountable for their home work if its not been sent with her.
spoke with the teacher about the problem, she said she wood send the pkt with her
on wensday.
29-Feb
on the way taken the kids back to school, Toni started crying saying daddy please don’t let me go back there.
Aaron said he hate’s them, I asked why she cry’s when I let them off on Friday.
she said Adonna puts her in cold shower’s, Aaron replied and Donny too ( this Male should not have any right to touch my daughter let along she has been
molested by her uncle that Cindy let go for over 6 months before I caught him ,and made him turn himself in to the police. )
Cindy should never let him give her a bath in any way.
these two people should never man handle my kids, and Cindy cant say anything or they will walk on her.
these people can do any thing they want to and she will give in to what they want from her.
or they will walk on her. My kids are being hurt in so many way I can not protect my kids from this.
All three of the adults sleeping together will this make these kid normal???
I was taken to jail for assault on Cindy on her word alone, why is the court looking away ???
the court needs to listen to my kids. They don’t want to live with those people.
they don’t fell safe there
I was told just throwing water at a person is an assault, is a cold shower an assault??
I think so, Cindy is by court order the only one that can punish the kids.
why are these people being able to man handle my kids.
3/5
Toni came with a massive burse on her leg, and again no home work for Toni Aaron had his home work.
Aaron told me Donnie was yelling at him and then Toni told me her mother hit her really hard
because she would not go to sleep. Now Cindy is hitting the kids!!!!
and their clothes were very dirty, had to wash them twice to get them clean again.
she also came with out socks, and under ware.
3/6/08
last night I seen Toni in her room playing with her private part, I didn’t say anything I walked away
then she asked to sleep with me I said ok, she wet the bed she started crying and said please daddy don’t be made at me
don’t put me in a cold shower, I changed then bed gave her hugs told her its ok these things happen
I told her that daddy had wet the bed when he was little she smiled gave me a big hug ,and said daddy I love you.
I took Toni to see the doctors she was not acting right , I took her to the Kelly center, I didn’t know where to start.
so I went back there , the lady there told me this was not the dept I wanted , and to take her to her
regualer doctor, so I went from there straight the her doctor.
I told him I not sure what is wrong with her she is not acting her self.
I told him where I took here , he did a once over, and said how did she receive the burse.
she replied my mommy did it last weekend, she picked me up off my bed by my leg and beat me.
Little Aaron said the same thing, Cindy was arrested for child abuse, she is now in Jail.
Friday the 7th
23-Mar
my son came with a massive sun burn on his head.
I asked him if he wore sun screen on his head , he said his mother only put it on toni.
4/3/2008
Aaron and Toni both told me, Cindy had told them she don’t care if I get custy of they them . they don’t care about her any way.
then on Saturday 3/30/08 they told me their mother tried to jump out of their car to kill her self, going over the dumbarton bridge.
she said she didn’t want to live any more,donnie had to pull her back till they could pull the car over
then she got out and started walking , and donnie pulled her in the car man handling her.
telling her she is going with them.
this is turning out to be like a colit.
and had not sent toni home wor for the last two weeks, it inpossible for me to take care of it if I don’t have it to do with her.
4/8/2008
Cindy did it again, she tried to get Little Aaron put on a seventy two hold to cover up what she had done.
cps Interviewed her and she amitted that she in deed shit in little Aaron face and held him down.
then tried to have him put in the hospital.
cps told cindy that was over the top, and that was asalt, and she could have gone to gail.
I choose not to do what cindy would have to me. I could have call the police but did not.
I don’t set people up!
18-Apr
she done it again she is trying to make little aaron out as to molest one of the bonnet kids ? When will this stop??
16-May
she let me tell my kids we were going on a picnic, @ 9 or 9:30 last night she texted my sister telling her that the kids cant go
per orders from C.P.S, and the court orders state she needs to pick them up at 10AM
we all took the day off to have this picnic.I am not sure if C.P.S realy told her not to let me have them for the day
I have called Gary , and Renee about this issue they have not returned my call as of yet.
she is using the court order when it fit her needs, and throwning the kids under the bus when it don’t.
she again is bringing them into our problem ( She needs to see they are kids and leave use out )
I let her go to southern california with them and it cut in to my visit and said nothing
she fells that she can through the court ordes around at her will.
when will this cout see what she is doing!.
judge you need to do something about what she is doing.
27-May
toni came with a lot of bruses,I asked Aaron thoose bruse’s are bad
I asked him where they came from from
he said mom and toni had a fight toni was not getting dressed.
toni pulled away and cindy fell on top of toni makng the bruses
Cindy should get down to toni’s level
she is 6 years old
she needs to stay in controll of our kids and not get to their age and fight with them.
31-May
Cindy got kick out of the program, now our kids or on the street when is the court going to see.
sence then she has interduced my kids to yet another guy, and CPS placed her in the same place she was in before.
I have found out that she helped the bennets that have a restraining order (they can not be any where around my kids)
the same week the we were in court, she helped then get in the home less shelter she is in.
Cps was in full knowlage of the restraining order and still placed my kids in harms way..
I have informed the county manager office, and they are not doing anything about CPS actions.
6/25/2008
Last Friday and this last Monday Dorothy Torres told me that I was not in voialation of the court order.
That I was doing what I could, by Following the case plan as ordered.
they prommised that they were going to take care of the phyic eval and the therpy order by the court.
I signed the case plan that stated that they would take care it it a month ago.
Gary Beasly has put the hold on he is in brech of contract.
6/26/2008
I got Dorothy To addmitt that they do talk to the home less shelter system.
I told her that I gave her enough time to make other Accomadition and that my kids did not have to be at that unit.
she replied she does not make those dessions, I told her I grow up on the wellfar system.
and I know how the system works.
I told her that my syster and my mother was do on hud, and I know how it works.
I told her that the social worker places the person in the shelter, and put the on a case plan.
then slowly works on getting them housing.and work.
the worker works hand and hand with the shelter.
his replied that was how it works , I asked then why did you put the kids back in the shelter with those people.
In full knowlage of the protective order. She replied she was not going to commet on that.
I told Her about the court order in enough time so my children could be place in a safe place.
She keep saying Gary is stopping every thing, and she want to help but her hand are tide.
she is stuck in the middle and I fell sorry for her.
Something needs to be done about Gary Beasley, and his abuse of power
Comment by AaronShinabery — July 30, 2008 @ 8:51 pm
It’s been 6 months now since we got perm. custody of the granddaughters, without incident or harrassment from CPS. Living 100 miles away from that office sure helps!!!!
The girls have adjusted very well. The only problem I am still having is the ex-foster parent who planned to adopt them, will NOT stop trying to connect with the girls!!!!! She just doesn’t care that the “no contact order” is in place until they are 18. I don’t want that drug and alcohol abuser anywhere near them. The judge personnally ended their contact as foster parents and took thier 2 natural children into CPS custody for neglect/mental abuse.
Yeah-they were approriate foster parents. NOT!
If tried changing the phone #’s but when they visit other family and friends near that area, it starts again.
I’m happy to have this over with (CPS). and I know my civil rights (now) inside and out. They won’t get in my home…ever!
I still pray that everyone can say this soon.
Of course, if anyone has ideas HOW to get these foster parents out of my life, please respond.
Comment by Cheryl — July 31, 2008 @ 8:37 am
The clock is ticking, CPS wont stop until it has what it want’s, our Children.
Can anyone tell me how and when CPS got the right to steal our children? Tell me please, how they can get away with lies, under oath? How a Judge can listen to the lies, say he knows they were lies, yet still go along with CPS and put the children in foster care? Can anyone tell me why it’s taken so long to stop these snakes? why they still slither all around, waiting to bite? If our children are not yet a ward of the courts cant we just take them back? Even if their in foster care? Are they not sill OUR children? Does anyone have the antidote for these slimy snakes? I need answers, the CPS clock is ticking away. Please
thank you and may God be with us all until each and every child is returned to their loving families.
Comment by christina seymour — July 31, 2008 @ 10:15 am
We are told we are a nation of laws. What a lie that is! C.P.S. operates without any laws, in violation of our Constitutional rights. They can take children away from their parents for any reason, or no reason.
This has been going on for as long as I can remember, and I’m not young.
My granddaughter was taken away at birth in 1986. My son and daughter-in-law were married, in their 20’s, and she was their first child. There were no charges of wrongdoing. They wanted her for the adoption market, and we could not afford to hire an attorney.
Where are the attornies anyway? Why arn’t they filing class actions suits? Why are so many of them ignoring the cries of the real abused, that is, the parents, and families, of the children who are kidnapped by C.P.S.
We need laws in this country, not guidelines. C.P. S. should be abolished and not replaced by any similar organization, or agency.
Catherine Courtney
Comment by catherine — July 31, 2008 @ 10:24 am
Catherine-
the attornies are too busy. They are collecting GUARANTEED PAYDAYS from the state just to keep the circle of child theft going.
No other organization in govn’t has soooo much “conflict of interest.
Example was my case. The prosecutor was the Asst Atty General. The kids GAL ( the lawyer assigned to choose what was best for the kids). And the kids attorney (has to say what the kids want regardless of it is best or not), were ALL PAID BY THE SAME PAYROLL OFFICE at our state capital accounting facility.
In fact, the assigned GAL, was the direct employee of the prosecuting Asst Atty General!!!
Now there’s a huge conflict!!!!!!!!
Comment by Cheryl — July 31, 2008 @ 12:54 pm
I just came for court to try and get the judge to allow us to adopt our grandchildren. The foster mom wants to adopt them. CPS wants her to adopt them. The judge says he’ll review the case however, it appears he will rule in favor of cps. So it appears I must resign to the fact that I’ve lost my grandchildren. I’ve spent thousands of dollars in Attorney fees and nothing to show for it. My grandchildren will never know how much I fought for them and love them.
Comment by gloria — July 31, 2008 @ 1:23 pm
Hi my name is maria
DHS has ruined my life i have two girls 9 and 13 i have not lost custody of them, and it has been five years that i have not seen them at all. not even a picture, just this years i received pictures of them but i am still not aloud to see them. I am a good mom and all i did was married a person that i thought i knew for 12 years. that had done something to my oldest. that i did not know about. an now i am here still fighting to get them back home with me. I myself grow stronger these past years and the things that DHS is doing is not right at all. I have no background of any kind and i always followed the rule. and i am getting com damed for some else actions. I been though two paid lawyers and it still feel like nothing is still getting down.
maria
Comment by Maria — July 31, 2008 @ 1:42 pm
Olivera
Most of the people who lose their kids by CPS are in fact VICTIMS of the system and so are their children.
In 1994, 6 out of 10 children in fosterhomes did in fact NOT belong in one. In 2005 it became 7 out of 10.
Yes, there are a FEW people who need INTERVENTION. Most of the few children who were taken for abuse by their parents will tell you personally that they would rather be abused at home than go to a foster home.
Children get abused in foster care, and you would be astonished at how few fosterhomes there are that don’t abuse the children. EVERY fosterhome I lived in was a nightmare and I wouldn’t wish for ANY child to experience being in the, “system.”
In the end of 2007, statistics reported that their are over 2,000,000 cases of false accusations of abuse every year! According to statistics, there are about 3,000,000 cases of alleged abuse reported every year.
For the percentage of valid reports made annually, very few of them are for physical abuse. Most of them are valid according to the level of income the parents have to work with and may be investigated for possible neglect. Often these cases can be easily resolved by educating the parents about the resources in their communities.
As for attacking people’s parenting abilities where the parents are mentally ill, SHAME ON YOU!!!! There are resources and medication for that too. There are millions of people in the US with some type of disability who are very nurturing, capable parents who are in fact MENTALLY ILL and some are medicated, some are not.
I can guarantee you this; IF CPS MADE YOU TAKE A PSYCHOLOGICAL EVALUATION TO DETERMINE IF YOU ARE FIT TO BE A PARENT, YOU WOULD FAIL!!!!
CPS will twist every single thing you say to destroy your family! If your house is clean, they will say that it’s filthy. If your kids appear to be well fed, well loved and safe and sound, they will say that they are dirty, that there is no food in your kitchen, your house is unsafe and that your children have detatchment disorder.
The few kids that need protection from their parents don’t get taken because they are damaged goods that can’t be sold to the highest bidder once the parental rights have been terminated. We are paying big tax dollars for CPS to sell our kids, violate our constitutional and GOD GIVEN rights and even ABUSE AND KILL our children. If you need reference to the statistics on that, you should visit the guestbook for last month!!!!
BECAUSE WE FAIL TO KNOW AND BELIEVE WHAT IS REALLY GOING ON, WE REMAIN VICTIMS.
THIS IS NOT A FREE COUNTRY ANYMORE. IT’S THE WORST COUNTRY TO LIVE IN!!!!!!!!!
Comment by JoLisa Lindbloom — July 31, 2008 @ 8:05 pm
I knew a friend that was abused by her mother back in 1965, she ran away from home,and was caught. The police took her back home and her parents put her on 2weeks restriction. The parents drank a lot and so Friday night the dad took off and the mom calls for her daughter who was upstairs, the daughter comes down, sees that her mom is drunk and knows she’s gonna get it. The mom has the girls brothers tie her to a dinning room chair, and the mom get’s the paddle, that one of her stupid brothers made in woodshop. It’s one swat for every hour she was gone, lets see she was gone 4 days. 24+24=48 48+48, OH man she was doomed. About half way there the doorbell rings and the mom goes to answer it, the girl gets herself untied, and runs upstairs, climbs out the bathroom window, slid off the roof and ran like hell to her friends house about 8 blocks away, After telling the friend what had happened, The friends mom tells her to take a warm shower, As the girl was getting out of the shower her friend saw her butt, which was ground up hamburger and bleeding. The mom comes to see it and calls the police. The police take pictures of her butt and tells the girl she doesnt have to be abused, they said she could go to a foster home, the girl thinking that would be better than the rest of that spanking, agrees. The police take her to the detention home and she’s locked up. On Monday she’s to go to court, but the Judge calls her into his office, and tells her, He was told it wasnt too good at home, He was sorry to hear about that, and he saw the pictures,she can go to court and request not to go back home, and then they would try to find her a foster home, At her age not too many people wanted to adopt that old of kids. But he said that really,a family should stay together no matter what, that my parents really loved me and she probably just scared them, she should go back home, being locked up or foster homes were not very nice either, and to be honest with you a bad mother was really better than no mother at all. she didnt want to be locked up and not knowing about foster homes she said o.k. Her dad came and got her, and he told her that her mom was upset about her hanging her dirty clothes out for everyone to see, but he didnt think she would get spanked.
The mom didnt talk too much to her daughter, but she didnt get spanked for almost that whole year, she did get a spanking from the switch tree, but only that one more time, 14 years old she was and then never got spanked again. No parent should beat a child. The switches were pretty bad, but the paddle was way too much, and tieing her down was wrong too. But that was 1965, What the Judge said was right tho, Families should stick together, In this day and age it’s planted into the younger people that if you marry and things dont go right they can divorce and get a new husband or wife, a different family, better yet why get married at all, live together,makes it easier to leave. Today I have known a couple of young girls that lost their babies to CPS, they let them go, because it was I guess too much for them or they towards the end didnt get done what should have been done, in that time frame, anyways lost their kids and thought, with broken heart mind you, Well they would just start all over again, have more babies.Theres no one to help them, no support, no money, no home, no job, What Im trying to say is CPS is destroying families, to the point that I would be surprised at the rate their going, 10 years from now there wont be any families, CPS will screw up blood lines cause everyone will have come from being adopted, kids will be dating their brothers and sisters and not even know it,how did they get that God given right? we have to do something, besides type. We could picket, couldnt we? Theres so many of us, we have to do something besides type. We are the people, the laws are ours, lets get CPS out before its too late
Comment by christina seymour — August 1, 2008 @ 7:36 am
Will someone tell me what happens when the parents lose their parental rights, does that mean the entire family loses too? Do grandparents,Aunts, Uncles, Cousins, do they no longer belong in that childs life? I have looked everywhere to find out but cant. And if that is so, how wrong is that???
I cant stand it, I thought once I got the internet I would be able to find the answer to getting my granddaughter back, but instead I have almost lost hope, there are so many who have fought and lost, only one or two who have gotten their babies back, not just 1year but 5,6 10 20 years, God help us, And why isnt he helping us? Why? Why havent they been stopped years ago? Is there nothing that will stop CPS? Please someone answer me, PLEASE!!!!!!!
Comment by christina seymour — August 1, 2008 @ 7:58 am
Gloria—
regarding adoption of the granddaughters. The way a the law sees it, IF the parents rights are terminated, then the kids do not have grandparents, Aunts, Uncles etc. They fear as the grandparent YOU will allow your daughter/son access to the kids after termination. Been there in Mar 08.
We could not get adoption of our 2 grand girls, BUT we did get Perm. Guardianship, with the threat by the judge that IF we allowed access to the parents, we would lose them and go to jail.
Since we have a stellar community history, credit record and finances, the judge gave us the chance 1st before considering adoption to the foster parents. We have no intention of messing this up! We know what the reprocussions are and refuse to go there,
Also, most states have a law that says, the party adopting has to have raised the kids for a least the LAST 9 months at the point of parental termination. If you were not that party, as we were not, you don’t get priority consideration, the foster parents do. It stinks.
But, I know it can happen with reassurance to the judge that you will absolutley follow his orders. He has the right to “waive” the 9 month living requirement, which did happen for us.
You atty. needs to remind him and in fact ask that it be waived so it doesn’t stand in your way of guardianship at the very least. Thats all it took from our atty; this and a reminder that grandparents are a viable solution. He also said, that CPS preaches doing “whats in the best interest of the kids”. Grandparents are in their best interest!
You can win this. I’ll pray for you.
Comment by Cheryl — August 1, 2008 @ 8:26 am
Cheryl,
Thanks for your reply. I sent an email to our Attorney regarding your comments. Hopefully, he will get back with me with a positive response. Thanks for giving me hope.
Comment by gloria — August 1, 2008 @ 10:34 am
Christian
in response to your question: Will someone tell me what happens when the parents lose their parental rights, does that mean the entire family loses too? Do grandparents,Aunts, Uncles, Cousins, do they no longer belong in that childs life?
Unfortunately, that is what it exactly means. Although some adopted parents are open to allowing family to still have relationship with their relatives.
gloria
Comment by gloria — August 1, 2008 @ 10:36 am
Glona, How can that be possible?? How can a person, Judge or not, take away what is and always will be ours???
How can they be so inhuman??? I cant understand it,Its not right not right at all. why havent they been stopped a long time ago?? What needs to be done to stop them, They need to be stopped now. Please tell me what I can do now
Comment by christina seymour — August 1, 2008 @ 11:22 am
Gloria,
NEVER LOSE HOPE!
We almost did, but kept the good fight going (on our own for quite a while). By being upstanding citizens, clean in every possible way, and begging to no end, the judge saw fit to at least give us grandparents a try as guardians. Asking for adoption was too high of a goal. Besides, we can ask for that next time, after we’ve proven ourselves.
By asking us to proove ourselves worthy for 1 year first, he suddenly deviated from CPS’ road and agreed with us that it was worth a try.
Christina-
How you ask can judges eliminate relatives after a parental termination? Simply because they are the judge and jury in a family court. AND, the loop-hole in most state laws that require a child to be at the potential adoptors home for 9-15 months, depending on how long the case has been dragged out before termination occurs.
Until our state legislators ( in every state, 1 by 1) close that loop-hole, relatives will always be the last to get the kids. It contradicts the CPS policies that require CPS to locate next of kin for kinship rights PRIOR to placing the kids in foster care.
That said, Which do you think CPS is more likely to follow as policy?
I’d say the savings of cash and time by CPS workers outweighs relatives and kinship requirements in a social workers eyes. And they can go into court and lie. Saying that they attempted to find kin, when really they didn’t even try.
Remember, CPS operates on “policy” whereas Judges/family courts operate on “law”.
See the contradiction?
It’s a double standard. Conflict of interest….
Comment by Cheryl — August 1, 2008 @ 3:25 pm
Gloria and Christina-
Also, under rule of law, If the child has no parents, they too have no aunts, uncles, grandparents etc.
The legal meaning tends to differ from what common sense says.
Somehow, I doubt that is what our forefathers meant when early laws were made in the USA.
Comment by Cheryl — August 1, 2008 @ 3:32 pm
To all who need inspiration, to be uplifted, and to feel the love of God you’ll find it in this astonishing link on the love of one father for his son:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8gm7XwtIJdM&feature=related
This is what is meant by earning the “right” to be your child’s parent.
Comment by Olivera — August 1, 2008 @ 10:34 pm
Cheryl,
I don’t think GALS are paid…I am almost positive they are 100% volunteer court appointed. The GAL that just was in my families case that was a false accussation from a doctor at a hospital just won the case for our family as she showed no partiallity and told the judge the children should be home so she in essense was our hero. Someone with sanity in the insanity from CPS we felt. They are spos to be a third party that only gives an opinon on what is best for child but I am sure there are good and bad gals just like everything else.
Comment by julie — August 4, 2008 @ 11:49 pm
I don’t know about other places, but the GAL in our case in corrupt Fremont County, CO, WAS PAID. She hired a private investigator to go after my husband! Who the hell paid for this? My husband was doing NOTHING WRONG but the GAL twisted it around so it looked bad for us. She is an evil conniving b*tch whose ex husband died under very mysterious circumstances last year.
Comment by Susan — August 5, 2008 @ 12:43 am
someone called cps on my daughter and said she was taking drugs with her kids around her.i know who it was. the girl that said that she was going to call cps on her, it was her. now, that same girl is in jail. she said in front of the cops that she was going to call cps and she did.her name is jeniffer agosta arosta.she is now incarcerated for pointimg a loaded gun at someone
Comment by grandmom — September 26, 2008 @ 10:01 pm